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FamilyUpdated June 2026

When does child support end in Ontario — is there an age cutoff?

Child support does not automatically end at age 18 in Ontario. Under both the Divorce Act and the Family Law Act, support can continue for a child who…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What if we never got a court order for child support — is there still an obligation?

A legal obligation to pay child support exists independently of any court order. Under Ontario's Family Law Act, every parent has a legal duty to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How are child support arrears enforced in Ontario?

In Ontario, child support orders are automatically filed with the Family Responsibility Office (FRO) unless both parents file a written agreement to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How is child support calculated when both parents earn high incomes in Ontario?

The Child Support Guidelines apply to all families regardless of income level. When a payor's annual income exceeds the top of the Guidelines table —…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to child support if a child is placed in temporary care and custody with a society?

Child support doesn't automatically stop just because a child is placed in temporary care and custody with a children's aid society - the underlying…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How is child support calculated in an uncontested divorce in Ontario?

Child support in all Ontario divorces — contested or uncontested — is calculated using the federal Child Support Guidelines. These guidelines set a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I reduce child support if I lose my job or my income drops in Ontario?

A significant involuntary decrease in income can be grounds to vary a child support order, but the reduction does not happen automatically. You must…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to child support if the payor gets a raise or promotion?

When a payor's income increases, the child support obligation typically increases as well, because the Guidelines table amount is tied directly to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can child support be paid as a lump sum instead of monthly in Ontario?

Lump-sum child support is legally possible in Ontario but courts award it sparingly. The default under the Child Support Guidelines is periodic…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does a payor's new partner's income affect child support in Ontario?

Generally, a new partner's income does not directly affect how much child support a payor owes. The Child Support Guidelines calculate support based on…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does a parent still have to pay child support if they are not seeing the child?

Yes. Child support and parenting time (formerly called access) are legally separate obligations in Ontario. A payor parent does not get to reduce or…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How is child support determined when the payor is self-employed?

Calculating child support for a self-employed payor is often the most contested part of a support dispute. The Guidelines require full financial…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a grandparent who provided regular childcare before separation use that history to support a contact claim?

Yes, and this kind of history is often some of the strongest evidence a grandparent can bring to a contact application. Regular childcare - picking the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a child old enough to have a preference get a say in their own name change?

Yes — a child's own views are one of the factors a court or the registrar can take into account, and the older and more mature the child, the more…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a child's own wishes matter when a court decides a grandparent contact application?

Yes, a child's own views and preferences are one of the factors a court considers under the best-interests test, though how much weight they carry…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can both spouses choose their own arbitrator, or does one get appointed for them?

Family arbitration is a voluntary, consent-based process, so both spouses generally need to agree on who will act as the arbitrator; it isn't something…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does coercive control get factored into a parenting time decision under the 2021 Divorce Act changes?

Since 2021, the Divorce Act contains an explicit definition of family violence that goes well beyond physical harm — it expressly includes a pattern of…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a cohabitation agreement deal with who keeps the pets if we separate in Ontario?

Yes. Pets can be addressed in a cohabitation agreement, and doing so is increasingly common. Under Ontario law, pets are legally treated as personal…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a cohabitation agreement protect my children's inheritance from a previous relationship?

Yes. A cohabitation agreement can explicitly preserve assets you intend to leave to children from a previous relationship by treating those assets as…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We separated but never signed anything — can we still make an agreement now in Ontario?

Yes. Separated common-law or married partners in Ontario can enter into a domestic contract — specifically a separation agreement — at any time after…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We had a religious ceremony but no civil marriage — what are our legal rights in Ontario?

In Ontario, a religious ceremony without civil solemnization does not create a legal marriage. To be legally married, a couple must obtain a marriage…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to our cohabitation agreement when we get married in Ontario?

Under Ontario's Family Law Act, a cohabitation agreement that was made while the parties were living together automatically becomes a marriage contract…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We live in a condo owned by one partner — should we have a cohabitation agreement in Ontario?

Yes, this is exactly the situation where a cohabitation agreement is most useful. When one common-law partner owns the home and the other does not, the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How much does a cohabitation agreement cost to have drafted in Ontario?

The cost varies depending on the complexity of the couple's financial situation, whether both parties negotiate or simply sign what one party's lawyer…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is a cohabitation agreement actually enforceable in Ontario courts?

Yes, a properly made cohabitation agreement is legally binding and enforceable under Ontario's Family Law Act. To be valid, it must be in writing,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can we sign a cohabitation agreement after we've already been living together for years in Ontario?

Yes. There is no requirement under Ontario's Family Law Act that a cohabitation agreement be signed before the couple moves in together. Couples who…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does a cohabitation agreement expire in Ontario or does it last forever?

A cohabitation agreement in Ontario does not have an automatic expiry date — it remains in effect indefinitely unless it is revoked or superseded. This…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do we have to share our finances with each other before signing a cohabitation agreement in Ontario?

Yes. Financial disclosure is one of the most critical requirements for a cohabitation agreement to withstand challenge. The Family Law Act lists…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does a cohabitation agreement affect my immigration status as a common-law partner in Ontario?

Immigration to Canada is federal, and a cohabitation agreement — a provincial family law document — does not directly affect your immigration status.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Should a cohabitation agreement address children from a previous relationship in Ontario?

Yes, blended family situations add complexity that a cohabitation agreement is well-suited to address. If one or both partners have children from a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can we use a mediator to help negotiate our cohabitation agreement in Ontario?

Yes, mediation is a recognized and useful option for couples who want help negotiating the terms of a cohabitation agreement. A family mediator is a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How does a cohabitation agreement protect property I owned before moving in together?

For common-law couples in Ontario, each partner already keeps their own separately owned property when the relationship ends, because common-law…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We're buying a home together as common-law partners — do we need a cohabitation agreement?

A cohabitation agreement is not legally required to buy a home together, but it is strongly advisable. Without one, the legal ownership of the home is…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What formalities are required for a cohabitation agreement to be legally valid in Ontario?

Under Ontario's Family Law Act, a domestic contract — including a cohabitation agreement — must meet three formal requirements to be valid: it must be…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can we agree in a cohabitation agreement that neither of us will claim spousal support?

Yes, a cohabitation agreement can include a clause by which both partners waive the right to claim spousal support from each other. This is expressly…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Should a cohabitation agreement address student loan debt one partner carries in Ontario?

Yes, it is a good idea to address existing student loan debt in a cohabitation agreement, particularly if one partner carries significantly more debt…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a cohabitation agreement address what my common-law partner receives if I die in Ontario?

A cohabitation agreement can include provisions addressing what happens on death — for example, confirming that each partner retains their own…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can we change or cancel our cohabitation agreement later in Ontario?

Yes. A cohabitation agreement, like any domestic contract under Ontario's Family Law Act, can be amended or revoked at any time by mutual agreement of…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between a cohabitation agreement and a marriage contract in Ontario?

Both are types of domestic contracts recognized under the Family Law Act, and they serve a similar purpose — allowing a couple to set their own rules…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a cohabitation agreement and when should Ontario couples get one?

A cohabitation agreement is a written contract between two people who are living together or planning to live together but are not married. In Ontario,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What should a cohabitation agreement include to be useful in Ontario?

A cohabitation agreement should be tailored to the couple's specific circumstances, but certain core topics appear in most well-drafted agreements in…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What can I do if my partner refuses to sign a cohabitation agreement in Ontario?

Ontario law does not require a common-law partner to sign a cohabitation agreement, and there is no legal mechanism to compel them to do so. If your…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can we write our own cohabitation agreement without lawyers in Ontario?

Technically, the Family Law Act requires only that a domestic contract be in writing, signed by both parties, and witnessed — it does not explicitly…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is collaborative family law and is it available in Ontario?

Collaborative family law is a structured approach to separation in which both spouses and their lawyers commit in writing to resolving all issues…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does a common-law parent have to pay child support in Ontario?

Yes. Child support is a right of the child and is not affected by whether the parents were married or in a common-law relationship. Both biological and…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is a common-law partner entitled to a CPP survivor's pension in Ontario?

Yes, but this is a federal benefit, not a provincial one. The Canada Pension Plan recognizes a common-law partner as a spouse if the couple cohabited…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Am I responsible for my common-law partner's debts in Ontario if we separate?

Generally, each person is liable only for debts in their own name. Unlike some aspects of marriage, common-law status in Ontario does not automatically…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What counts as a 'common-law' relationship in Ontario?

Ontario law does not use one single definition of "common-law" for every purpose. The threshold varies depending on which statute applies to your…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a common-law partner get a restraining order or emergency protection in Ontario?

Yes. Common-law partners have the same access to protective orders as married spouses under Ontario law. The Family Law Act allows either party in a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We bought a house together but only my partner's name is on title — what are my rights?

If your name is not on the property title, you do not have automatic ownership rights simply because you are a common-law partner in Ontario. Unlike…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does a common-law partner inherit automatically if their partner dies without a will in Ontario?

Only if the relationship meets the qualifying threshold. Under the Succession Law Reform Act, a common-law spouse who has cohabited continuously for at…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does living common-law in Ontario give me the right to use my partner's last name?

There is no automatic right in Ontario to take a partner's last name as a result of a common-law relationship. In Ontario, a legal name change requires…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does common-law status affect my eligibility for ODB or ODSP in Ontario?

Yes. Ontario's social assistance programs use household income and assets when assessing eligibility and benefit amounts. Under Ontario Disability…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Are common-law partners covered under each other's employer health benefits in Ontario?

Whether a common-law partner is covered under an employer's group benefits plan depends entirely on the terms of the plan, not Ontario family law…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a common-law partner share in a pension plan at separation in Ontario?

This depends on the type of pension and the governing legislation. For married couples in Ontario, the Family Law Act entitles a spouse to include…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do common-law partners share property rights the way married couples do in Ontario?

No. This is one of the most significant differences between marriage and common-law relationships in Ontario. Married spouses have a statutory right to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What key legal rights do common-law couples have in Ontario compared to married couples?

Common-law couples in Ontario share some rights with married couples but have important gaps. On the similar side: both can claim spousal and child…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I name my common-law partner as my RRSP beneficiary in Ontario?

Yes. You can designate any person, including a common-law partner, as the named beneficiary of your RRSP. When a beneficiary is named directly on the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How do common-law partners separate legally in Ontario — is there a formal process?

There is no formal government process to "dissolve" a common-law relationship the way divorce ends a marriage. Common-law couples simply separate —…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is the divorce process the same for common-law couples in Ontario?

No. The divorce process — and the Divorce Act itself — applies only to legally married spouses. Common-law couples, no matter how long they have lived…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a common-law partner claim spousal support in Ontario?

Yes, once a couple meets the qualifying threshold under the Family Law Act — three continuous years of cohabitation, or a relationship of some…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do common-law partners have to file taxes together in Ontario?

Tax filing is federal, not provincial. Under the Income Tax Act, you must report your relationship to the Canada Revenue Agency once you have lived…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What counts as three years of cohabitation for spousal support purposes in Ontario?

Under the Family Law Act, a common-law couple must have "cohabited continuously" for at least three years to qualify for spousal support (absent a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent request that all communication go through a monitored app because of a violence history?

Yes. Where there's a history of family violence or coercive control, a family court can order that co-parenting communication happen only through a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does a court handle competing undue hardship claims from both parents?

Where both parents raise undue hardship claims at the same time, a court generally assesses each claim on its own merits first, confirming whether each…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent's compliance with a society safety plan affect the outcome of their parenting case?

Yes. A parent's compliance, or lack of it, with a safety plan put in place by a children's aid society can become relevant evidence in a parenting…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a history of conflict between a parent and grandparent affect a contact application's odds?

It can, but not necessarily in a way that dooms the application - courts try to separate conflict between the adults from what's actually good for the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does a judge weigh conflicting allegations of family violence when there's no criminal record?

A criminal record, or the absence of one, isn't decisive either way — family court operates on a different standard of proof than criminal court, and a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent who wrongfully removed a child argue the other parent later consented to the move?

Yes, this is a recognized defense under the Hague Convention, but it requires clear evidence that the other parent genuinely consented to the move, or…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What penalties can a judge impose if someone is found in contempt for denying parenting time?

A finding of contempt gives a judge broad discretion to fashion a remedy that fits the seriousness and pattern of the breach, rather than a single…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent be found in contempt for interfering with the other parent's phone calls during parenting time?

It's possible, but it depends heavily on what the order actually says. Contempt requires a clear, specific term that was deliberately breached, so if…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent be found in contempt of a parenting order because society intervention prevented compliance?

A parent generally should not be found in contempt of a parenting order where a children's aid society's intervention genuinely made compliance…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent be found in contempt of a parenting order that is unclear about the exact schedule?

Generally, no, or at least not easily. Contempt requires the underlying order to be clear and unambiguous about what was required, precisely because a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What has to be proven to succeed on a contempt motion for denied parenting time?

A contempt motion asks the court to find that someone deliberately disobeyed a clear court order, and Ontario courts treat this as a serious step, not…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is required to bring a motion for contempt against a parent who consistently returns a child late?

Consistently returning a child late can support a contempt motion, but the same core requirements apply as with any other alleged breach of a parenting…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the difference between a contempt motion and a motion to change for enforcing a parenting order?

These two tools serve different purposes, even though both can come up when a parenting order isn't working as intended. A contempt motion asks the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is there a cooling-off period after signing a family arbitration agreement, before it becomes binding?

Generally, no, there isn't a fixed, legislated cooling-off period the way there might be for certain consumer contracts, where a buyer automatically…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a court order production of a payor's corporate financial statements, not just personal tax returns?

Yes. Where a payor is a shareholder, officer, or director of a corporation, particularly a closely-held or family business, a court can order…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the cost of bringing a third-party contact application compared to a parenting time motion between parents?

Court filing fees for these two kinds of steps aren't necessarily different simply because one involves a non-parent - both a new contact application…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a court order costs against someone who funded a party's litigation but wasn't a party themselves?

In limited circumstances, yes. While costs orders are normally made against the actual parties to a case, a court retains discretion in appropriate…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a family court impose costs against a party for bringing an unnecessary motion?

Yes. Ontario family courts have broad discretion under the Family Law Rules to award costs, and bringing a motion that turns out to be unnecessary,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is a costs award enforced the same way as a support order, through the Family Responsibility Office?

Generally, no. The Family Responsibility Office is specifically focused on enforcing child and spousal support obligations under court orders and filed…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can costs be awarded against a lawyer personally for how they conducted a family case?

Yes, though this is uncommon and reserved for serious situations. Ontario courts have the power to order costs against a lawyer personally, rather than…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can costs be awarded even in an uncontested or amicable family case?

Costs are far less commonly an issue in a genuinely uncontested or amicable case, since costs disputes usually arise from contested steps like motions…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can costs be awarded on a motion even if the underlying case later settles?

Yes. Costs on a specific motion are generally decided based on that motion itself — who brought it, how it was handled, and how it was ultimately…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a family court costs order be paid in installments instead of a lump sum?

Yes, in appropriate circumstances. While a costs order is generally expected to be paid promptly once made, a court has discretion to allow payment in…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a court order costs specifically as a penalty for failing to give financial disclosure?

Yes. Financial disclosure obligations are taken seriously in Ontario family court, and a party who fails to provide required financial disclosure,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a party ask for costs thrown away if a conference has to be adjourned because of the other side?

Yes. Where a conference or hearing has to be adjourned because of the other party's conduct — for example, they failed to file required materials on…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a court change a child's name over one parent's strong objection?

Yes, a court can order a child's name changed even over one parent's strong objection, but it isn't a routine outcome — the court applies the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a court order contact time between half-siblings from different relationships?

Yes. Ontario's parenting law allows a court to order contact between a child and a non-parent where that's in the child's best interests, and a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a court order a make-up parenting time schedule after finding someone in contempt?

Yes, once a court has found a parent in contempt for denying parenting time, ordering a specific make-up schedule is a natural and common part of the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent ask the family court to order the other parent to cooperate with a CAS investigation?

Not directly. A family court's authority in a parenting case is over parenting time, decision-making responsibility, and support - it doesn't include…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is a court order required to change a child's name, or can it be done through a government application alone?

It depends on whether everyone who needs to consent actually agrees. Where all parents, or others with decision-making responsibility or parenting…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What support is available at a courthouse for someone representing themselves in a family case?

Ontario family courthouses generally have a Family Law Information Centre, staffed to give free general information about family court process, forms,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What credentials should someone check before hiring a family arbitrator in Ontario?

Before hiring a family arbitrator, it's worth confirming they have the specific qualifications Ontario's framework requires for this role, including…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a criminal peace bond automatically affect a parallel family court parenting case?

Not automatically — a peace bond is a criminal court order, and a family court dealing with parenting time and decision-making responsibility doesn't…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Are cryptocurrency trading gains counted as income for child support in Ontario?

Cryptocurrency trading gains are generally treated the same way any other investment or trading income would be under the Federal Child Support…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What are the four D.B.S. factors a court weighs before ordering retroactive child support?

Courts weighing whether to order retroactive child support generally look at four factors, often called the D.B.S. factors after the framework that…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What debts qualify as grounds for an undue hardship claim under the Guidelines?

The Federal Child Support Guidelines recognize unusually high debts reasonably incurred to support the family before separation, or to earn a living,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens if there is a medical emergency during the other parent's parenting time?

During a parent's parenting time, that parent is responsible for the child's day-to-day care and can make emergency medical decisions without waiting…

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