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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a retroactive support claim be brought years after the child has already turned 18?

Potentially, yes, though it becomes a more difficult claim to bring the longer the delay stretches past the child's eighteenth birthday, since courts…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How far back can a retroactive child support award go if the payor's income quietly increased years ago?

There is no fixed statutory deadline stating a retroactive child support award must stop at a specific number of years; instead, courts weigh a set of…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a court order retroactive support to start from the date income actually changed, not the date of application?

Yes, a court has discretion to set the effective start date of a retroactive award to reflect when the payor's income actually changed, rather than…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can retroactive child support be ordered even if the recipient parent never asked for a variation?

Yes, formally requesting a variation beforehand is not an absolute precondition to a retroactive award, though the fact that no request was made, and…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent request a review hearing to challenge continued society involvement in their family?

Where a child protection matter has gone through the court process, Ontario's child protection law generally provides for periodic status review…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a passport already issued be revoked, not just a new application blocked, over unpaid support?

The Family Responsibility Office's federal licence suspension tool is generally framed around suspending or preventing renewal of a licence like a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does an Ontario court verify true income for a parent who drives for Uber or a similar gig platform?

Gig platform work leaves more of a digital paper trail than a purely cash-based business, since platforms typically generate their own income…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a right of first refusal in a parenting order?

A right of first refusal is a clause in a parenting order or agreement that requires one parent to offer the other parent the opportunity to look after…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

My name is not on the title. Can I stay in our matrimonial home after separation in Ontario?

Yes. Under Ontario's Family Law Act, the right to possession of the matrimonial home belongs to both spouses equally, regardless of who holds legal…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What counts as 'rights of custody' under the Hague Convention when deciding whether a removal was wrongful?

Under the Hague Convention, "rights of custody" is a broad, specifically defined concept that includes the right to determine a child's place of…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the role of a Family Law Information Centre at an Ontario courthouse?

A Family Law Information Centre is a resource located at Ontario family courthouses, designed to provide free general information about the family…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does a society's safety plan interact with an existing court-ordered parenting schedule?

A safety plan put in place by a children's aid society and an existing court-ordered parenting schedule aren't automatically the same thing, and they…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a party arrange a safety plan or support person for court appearances in a high-conflict, violent case?

Yes. Ontario courthouses generally allow accommodations for someone attending a family court proceeding involving a history of family violence,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a party get an emergency exclusive possession order the same day violence is alleged?

It's possible in a genuinely urgent situation, but it isn't guaranteed or routine — Ontario family courts can hear an urgent motion for exclusive…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a same-sex couple both be listed as legal parents on a birth certificate without adoption?

Yes, in most cases. Ontario's parentage rules recognize a birth parent's spouse or partner as a legal parent where a child is conceived through…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can I ask the court to seal my family court file from public access in Ontario?

It's possible, but it's a significant exception to a strong general rule, not a routine request. Ontario courts operate on an open court principle,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a family court order security for costs against a party before a case proceeds further?

Yes, in certain circumstances a family court can order a party to post security for costs — essentially funds or a guarantee set aside to cover a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does seizure and sale of a payor's home work if support arrears remain unpaid?

Forcing the sale of a payor's home over support arrears generally involves registering a lien or writ against the property, then, if the debt still…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What records can a court demand from a self-employed payor who takes most of their income in cash?

Ontario courts can order broad financial disclosure from a self-employed support payor well beyond a personal tax return, particularly where cash…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Am I required to look for work while receiving spousal support?

Yes. One of the four objectives of spousal support under the Divorce Act is to encourage economic self-sufficiency. Courts expect support recipients to…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can grandparents from both sides of a blended family be given separate contact schedules?

Yes. There's no rule requiring grandparents from different sides of a family, whether from an original family unit or a newer blended one, to share a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Should I get a separation agreement before filing for divorce in Ontario?

Having a separation agreement in place before you file for divorce is generally a smart approach, though it is not legally required. A separation…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to an existing separation agreement's parenting terms if a society becomes involved with the family?

An existing separation agreement's parenting terms don't automatically get cancelled just because a children's aid society becomes involved with the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between a separation agreement and a cohabitation agreement in Ontario?

Both are domestic contracts under Ontario's Family Law Act, but they are used at different stages and for different purposes. A cohabitation agreement…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How does separation affect government benefits and tax credits in Ontario?

Separation affects several government benefits and tax credits because many of them are calculated based on family income, marital status, or the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How do I serve my spouse with the divorce application in Ontario?

For a sole divorce application, you are required to personally serve your spouse with the court documents after they are filed. Personal service means…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a costs order already made be set aside or varied later in Ontario family court?

It's possible, but it isn't routine — a costs order, like other court orders, is generally treated as final once made, and a court won't simply revisit…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is required to show a 'settled intention' to treat a child as one's own for standing purposes?

Showing a settled intention to treat a child as one's own generally means demonstrating an ongoing, deliberate pattern of taking on a parental role,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does a settlement conference brief differ from a case conference brief?

A case conference brief is generally an earlier, more general document, summarizing the issues in dispute, each party's position, and outstanding…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is a settlement conference and how is it different from mediation?

A settlement conference is a court process, held before a judge as part of an ongoing family court case, specifically focused on trying to resolve the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is a severance package counted as income for child support in the year it's received in Ontario?

A severance package is generally included in a parent's income for the year it's received, since it replaces employment income the parent would…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does child support change when parents share custody equally in Ontario?

Yes. When each parent has the child at least 40 percent of the time (the threshold for "shared custody" under the Guidelines), the standard table…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens when a corporation pays a shareholder-parent through perks instead of salary?

Where a shareholder-parent's corporation pays for personal benefits, such as a vehicle, travel, meals, or other expenses that would otherwise come out…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I get spousal support if we were only married for two years?

Entitlement to spousal support after a short marriage is possible but harder to establish. Courts and the Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (SSAG)…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Should children be involved in or informed about the details of our separation agreement in Ontario?

Children should generally be informed about the arrangements that directly affect them — such as where they will live and when they will see each…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to established sibling relationships in a blended family if one parent relocates?

A parent's relocation doesn't automatically end or override established sibling relationships, whether between full siblings, half-siblings, or…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a single past incident of violence automatically bar a parent from decision-making responsibility?

No — a single past incident doesn't automatically disqualify a parent from having decision-making responsibility. Ontario courts apply the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a single person be declared the sole legal parent of a child born through donor conception and surrogacy?

Yes. Ontario's parentage framework does not require two parents — a single intended parent can be recognized as a child's sole legal parent where they…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can parties agree to skip a case conference and go straight to a settlement conference?

In some circumstances, yes, but it generally requires the court's agreement, not just the parties' own agreement — the Family Law Rules set out case…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is a 'society involvement' clause and should it be included in a parenting plan?

There's no single standard "society involvement" clause required by law, but many family lawyers include a term in a parenting plan or separation…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the difference between society wardship and a parent losing decision-making responsibility?

These come from two different statutes and mean different things. Wardship - a child becoming a society ward or Crown ward - is a status a child…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent be granted sole decision-making responsibility solely because of a documented history of family violence?

Yes, a documented history of family violence can, on its own, be enough to support an order for sole decision-making responsibility, where the evidence…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between a sole and joint divorce application in Ontario?

A joint divorce application is signed by both spouses together at the outset. Both are co-applicants, both provide sworn affidavits, and no formal…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a sperm donor later apply for parenting time if there is no written agreement in place?

Potentially, yes — and this is one of the biggest risks of donor conception arranged without paperwork. If there is no written agreement made before…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How does child support work when parents have split custody of multiple children?

Split custody occurs when parents have more than one child and each parent has primary care of at least one child — for example, one teenager lives…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

My ex and I reconciled and separated again. Does the second separation affect my support claim?

Reconciliation and a subsequent second separation are significant facts in a support claim. If spouses reconcile after a first separation and then…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does having primary custody of the children affect how much spousal support I receive?

Yes, being the primary caregiver for children after separation affects both the amount and duration of spousal support. The Spousal Support Advisory…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does my ex-spouse living with a new partner reduce or end my support payments?

If the spouse receiving support begins cohabiting with a new partner, the payor can apply to vary or terminate support. A new cohabiting relationship…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does my spouse's adultery affect whether they have to pay me spousal support?

In Ontario, spousal support is generally determined on a no-fault basis. Marital misconduct — including adultery — typically does not affect…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We lived together for two years but never married. Do I have a support claim?

Under Ontario's Family Law Act, a common-law partner can claim spousal support only if the couple cohabited continuously for at least three years, or…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Am I entitled to spousal support if I stayed home to raise our children?

Leaving paid employment or reducing your career to raise children is one of the strongest grounds for spousal support entitlement. Courts treat this as…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between a fixed-term and an indefinite spousal support order?

A fixed-term (time-limited) spousal support order specifies an end date. It tells the recipient that support will be paid for a set period — say, three…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What if I am unable to work due to a disability? Does that affect my support entitlement?

A disability that prevents you from working is a significant factor in spousal support entitlement and duration. Courts cannot expect a disabled…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We lived together for less than three years but have a child. Can I still claim support?

Yes. Under the Family Law Act, the three-year cohabitation requirement is waived if you and your partner are in a relationship of some permanence and…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I claim support if I gave up the chance to finish my degree because of the marriage?

Giving up educational opportunities because of the marriage is one of the recognized bases for compensatory spousal support. If you left school, put a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How does spousal support work if one of us is very wealthy?

The Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (SSAG) are designed for typical income ranges, and above a certain income level they become less useful because…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What if our marriage was short but I gave up a lot for it career-wise?

The length of the marriage is a factor in spousal support, but it is not the only one. If a relatively short marriage caused significant, documentable…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How is spousal support handled in an uncontested divorce in Ontario?

In an uncontested divorce, spousal support is typically addressed one of two ways: through a separation agreement that either sets support terms or…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is it better to resolve spousal support through mediation or go to court?

For most couples, reaching a spousal support agreement through mediation or negotiation is faster, cheaper, and less stressful than going to court.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do I still owe spousal support if I am already paying child support?

Yes, it is possible to owe both child support and spousal support simultaneously. These are separate legal obligations and one does not eliminate the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How does an older spouse's limited remaining working years affect the support calculation?

Age is a significant factor in both entitlement and duration. If the recipient spouse is in their late 50s or older at the time of separation, courts…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If we have a prenuptial agreement, can the court still order spousal support?

A prenuptial agreement (called a "marriage contract" in Ontario) can address spousal support, and courts generally respect those provisions. However, a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between child support and spousal support?

Child support and spousal support are two separate legal obligations in Ontario family law, though they can both arise from the same separation. Child…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to spousal support when both spouses retire?

When both spouses retire, the financial landscape that underpinned the original support order may change significantly, giving either party grounds to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

My spouse inherited a property before we married and we lived in it. Is it a matrimonial home?

Yes, an inherited property can become a matrimonial home if the couple ordinarily occupied it as their family residence on the date of separation. The…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

My spouse changed the locks on our home and won't let me back in. What can I do in Ontario?

Changing the locks to exclude a spouse from the matrimonial home is not permitted under Ontario law without a court order. Both spouses have equal…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

My spouse put our home in a trust without my knowledge. Is that allowed in Ontario?

Generally, no. The Family Law Act requires the written consent of both spouses before any interest in the matrimonial home can be disposed of or…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If my ex-spouse receives a large inheritance, does it affect the support they owe me?

An inheritance received by a support payor could be relevant to a variation application if it substantially increases their income or financial…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

My spouse refuses to leave after I got an exclusive possession order. What do I do?

An exclusive possession order is enforceable as a court order. If your spouse refuses to comply, you have legal options. A court order for exclusive…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a standard-of-living comparison between households factor into a retroactive support award?

A standard-of-living comparison is not a formal, separate legal test for retroactive child support in the way it is for an undue hardship claim, but…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if both households' standard of living is compared and found roughly equal?

If the standard-of-living comparison between the two households comes out roughly equal, the claiming parent generally will not succeed on an undue…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a family court stay a parenting motion until a related child protection matter is resolved?

A family court can stay, or temporarily pause, a parenting motion until a related child protection matter is resolved, but it's a discretionary…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a stepparent be ordered to pay child support in Ontario?

Yes, under Ontario's Family Law Act and the federal Divorce Act, a stepparent can be ordered to pay child support if they stood in the place of a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to a stepparent's parenting time if the biological parent later restricts contact?

If a stepparent already has a formal parenting time or contact order, a biological parent cannot simply restrict or end it on their own - the order…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to a stepparent's relationship with a stepchild if the parent they were with dies?

A stepparent has no automatic legal right to continued contact with a stepchild after the parent they were with dies - parental authority typically…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a stepparent be ordered to pay child support and also seek parenting time for the same child?

Yes, these can both apply to the same stepparent, though they arise from different legal questions. A stepparent who stood in the place of a parent to…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What steps come before a contempt finding actually results in jail time for a support default?

Jail time for a support default is generally the last step in a longer sequence, not something that follows immediately from a single missed payment or…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent stop the other from taking a child's passport to prevent an abduction risk?

Yes, there are several practical and legal steps available. A Canadian passport for a minor generally can't be issued without the consent of everyone…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a support recipient sue directly in court instead of going through the Family Responsibility Office?

Whether a recipient can pursue enforcement outside the Family Responsibility Office depends significantly on how the support obligation was created and…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a court order supervised contact for a grandparent instead of denying contact outright?

Yes, and this is a common middle-ground outcome in grandparent contact cases where a court sees real value in the relationship but also sees a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a family court order supervised exchanges when there is a documented history of coercive control?

Yes. Where there's a documented history of coercive control, a family court can order that parenting time exchanges happen in a supervised or…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

When can a court order that parenting time be supervised?

A court can order that parenting time be supervised when there are concerns about a child's safety or well-being in the care of a parent. Common…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can unpaid child support arrears be reported to a credit bureau in Ontario?

Yes. Reporting arrears to a credit bureau is one of the enforcement tools available to the Family Responsibility Office when a payor falls behind on…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a support deduction order start deducting from a payor's pay even before they miss a payment?

Yes, in many Ontario cases a support deduction order is set up to start deducting from a payor's pay right from the outset, rather than waiting for a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a support order be enforced against a payor's pension income directly?

Pension income is generally not off-limits for support enforcement. The Family Responsibility Office's garnishment tools are built to reach various…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to spousal support if the person paying becomes seriously ill and cannot work?

A serious illness that prevents the paying spouse from working can constitute a material change in circumstances, allowing them to apply to reduce or…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What supports can a parent access through a children's aid society while trying to regain parenting time?

Children's aid societies generally offer, or connect families with, a range of supports meant to help a parent address the concerns that led to their…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does Ontario law require a surrogacy agreement to be in writing to be valid?

Yes — for the automatic, non-court parentage route to be available, the agreement between the intended parents and the surrogate must be in writing and…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a surrogate have the right to change her mind after the child is born?

Yes. Regardless of what a pre-conception surrogacy agreement says, the automatic route to intended-parent recognition depends on the surrogate…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is compensation for a surrogate legal in Ontario, and does it affect the parentage agreement?

Federal law governs what can and can't be paid in a surrogacy arrangement in Canada, and it prohibits paying a surrogate a fee for acting as a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a payor's boating or hunting licence be suspended along with their driver's licence for unpaid support?

FRO's enforcement tools for licence suspension are generally understood in terms of a payor's driver's licence at the provincial level, and separately,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Are there tax implications I should know about when signing a separation agreement in Ontario?

Yes. Tax consequences can significantly affect the real value of what each spouse receives in a separation, and they should be addressed before the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can the terms of a temporary care and custody agreement include specific parenting time for the other parent?

Yes, in practice a temporary care and custody agreement can, and often does, address contact between the child and each parent, including the parent…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if a temporary care and custody agreement isn't renewed and the society won't agree to return the child?

If a temporary care and custody agreement isn't renewed and reaches its end, the society's authority to keep the child in its care under that agreement…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What does it mean if my child is placed under a temporary care and custody agreement with a children's aid society?

A temporary care and custody agreement is a written agreement, made under the Child, Youth and Family Services Act, 2017, between a parent and a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between temporary and permanent spousal support in Ontario?

In Ontario family law, spousal support can be ordered at different stages of a proceeding and for different durations. Temporary support (also called…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can text messages or emails alone establish a pattern of coercive control in family court?

Text messages and emails can be powerful evidence of coercive control, but whether they're enough on their own depends on what they actually show — a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does the three-year retroactivity limit still apply if the payor deliberately hid their income?

The commonly cited "roughly three years" figure is a general starting point courts use when assessing how far back a retroactive child support award…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is an uncontested divorce and how does it work in Ontario?

An uncontested divorce in Ontario is one where both spouses agree that the marriage is over and there are no outstanding disputes about property,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What are the steps in an uncontested divorce in Ontario?

An uncontested divorce in Ontario generally follows these key steps. First, ensure you have been separated for at least one year. Second, gather your…

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