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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to decision-making responsibility if a child becomes a Crown ward?

When a child becomes a Crown ward, the Crown - acting through a children's aid society - generally takes on guardianship of the child, which typically…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the difference between a declaration of parentage and a step-parent adoption?

A declaration of parentage is a court order confirming that someone already qualifies, under Ontario's parentage rules, to be recognized as a child's…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a Canadian intended parent be declared a legal parent before a surrogate gives birth?

Ontario's automatic parentage route for surrogacy only takes effect after the child is born — it depends on the surrogate's written confirmation given…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens at a default hearing when a payor can't explain missed support payments?

A default hearing is a court process used when a payor has fallen behind on support and hasn't resolved the arrears through the Family Responsibility…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What defenses exist to a Hague Convention application seeking a child's return?

The Hague Convention sets out a small number of narrow, specific defenses to an application for a child's return, and the general approach is that…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What does it mean to 'designate' a matrimonial home in Ontario?

Ontario's Family Law Act allows spouses to jointly register a designation of matrimonial home against the property on title. This formal designation…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between separation, divorce, and annulment in Ontario?

These three terms describe different legal situations, and it is worth understanding each one clearly. Separation means the spouses have decided to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between being separated and being divorced in Ontario?

Separation and divorce are distinct legal states. When you separate, you and your spouse decide to live separate and apart with the intent to end the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What can a parent do if they disagree with how a parenting coordinator is exercising authority?

A parent who believes a coordinator is overstepping the scope of authority set out in the parenting coordination agreement, or exercising that…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What disclosure do parties owe each other before starting family arbitration in Ontario?

Family arbitration generally still requires the parties to exchange relevant disclosure before or at the start of the process, much like litigation or…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What kinds of disputes are typically outside a parenting coordinator's authority?

Because a parenting coordinator's authority comes from the parents' own agreement rather than a fixed statutory role, the exact boundaries vary by…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does the Divorce Act treat third-party contact applications differently than the Children's Law Reform Act?

Both statutes allow a non-parent to seek contact with a child, and both apply the same underlying best-interests test, but which one applies depends on…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Are Canada Pension Plan credits split when we divorce in Ontario?

Canada Pension Plan (CPP) credit splitting is a separate process from Ontario's family law equalization and operates under federal legislation. Upon…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is my spouse entitled to part of my pension when we divorce in Ontario?

In Ontario, pensions are treated as property for the purpose of equalization under the Family Law Act. The value of a pension that accrued during the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to our home when we get divorced in Ontario?

The matrimonial home receives special treatment under Ontario's Family Law Act. Both spouses have an equal right to possession of the matrimonial home,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I get a divorce in Ontario if my spouse lives in another country?

Yes. Provided you have lived in Ontario for at least one year, you can file for divorce here even if your spouse lives abroad. The Ontario court has…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What special rules apply when divorcing with young children in Ontario?

When divorcing with children, the court's primary concern under both the Divorce Act and Ontario's Children's Law Reform Act is the best interests of…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We got married in another province or country — can we get divorced in Ontario?

Yes. The Divorce Act is a federal statute that applies across Canada. You do not need to have been married in Ontario to divorce in Ontario — what…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do both spouses need their own separate lawyer for a separation agreement in Ontario?

Both spouses are not legally required to have separate lawyers, but it is strongly recommended. One lawyer cannot represent both parties in a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do both spouses need their own lawyers for an uncontested divorce in Ontario?

No, there is no legal requirement for both spouses to retain separate lawyers in an uncontested divorce. Many couples complete a straightforward…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do common-law partners have the same equalization rights as married spouses in Ontario?

No. Ontario's equalization scheme under the Family Law Act applies only to married spouses. Common-law partners — no matter how long they lived…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do common-law partners have the same rights as married spouses when they separate in Ontario?

No — in Ontario, common-law partners do not have the same automatic property rights as married spouses when they separate. This is one of the most…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do I have to pay spousal support if we were never married?

Yes — in Ontario, marriage is not required for a spousal support obligation to arise. The Family Law Act allows a person to claim support from a former…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do I need a lawyer to get a divorce in Ontario?

You are not legally required to hire a lawyer to get a divorce in Ontario. Self-represented litigants (people who represent themselves) do file and…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do I need a lawyer to separate in Ontario?

You are not legally required to hire a lawyer to separate in Ontario. Separation itself is a factual event — it happens the moment you decide to live…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What documents are needed to legally change your surname after a divorce is finalized in Ontario?

Ontario offers a simplified path for someone who wants to resume a surname they used before their marriage after a divorce, separate from the general…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What documents must be filed before a case conference in Ontario family court?

Before a case conference, the Family Law Rules generally require each party to file a case conference brief, a document summarizing the issues in…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does the Family Responsibility Office automatically enforce every support order, or must it be registered first?

Enforcement through the Family Responsibility Office is automatic by default in Ontario: once a court makes a support order (or a support-related…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does joint decision-making mean my child has to live with both parents equally?

No. Joint decision-making responsibility and equal parenting time are two entirely separate concepts in Ontario family law, and they do not go together…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If I get a new higher-paying job, will my spousal support payments go up?

If your income increases significantly after a support order is made, your ex-spouse may apply to vary the order to increase the amount of support you…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does a separation agreement need to be filed with the court in Ontario?

No. A separation agreement in Ontario does not need to be filed with a court to be valid and binding between the parties. Unlike a court order, a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does spousal support end when the paying spouse retires?

Retirement can be a valid reason to apply to vary or terminate spousal support, but it does not end payments automatically. The paying spouse must…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What role does a domestic violence risk assessment play in a contested parenting case?

In a contested parenting case involving allegations of family violence, a court can order or receive an assessment — typically prepared by a qualified…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a sperm or egg donor need to sign anything to avoid future parentage obligations?

Yes. To avoid being considered a legal parent, a person who provides sperm, eggs, or embryos for someone else's reproduction should sign a written…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can duty counsel at the courthouse represent someone at a case conference, or just give advice?

It depends on the specific program and the person's eligibility, but duty counsel's role is generally more limited than a fully retained lawyer's — in…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do both parties have to disclose all their income and finances in a support case?

Yes. Full and frank financial disclosure is a legal obligation in Ontario family law proceedings, including spousal support cases. Both the payor and…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How is earning capacity assessed when imputing income to a parent who claims they can't find work?

When a parent claims they cannot find work, a court assessing whether to impute income looks at their education, past work history, age, health, and…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does it matter if the spouse claiming support already has significant savings or investments?

Yes, a recipient's own assets and investment income are directly relevant to both entitlement and the amount of any support award. Spousal support…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can I get emergency parenting time changed if the other parent's home is under active CAS investigation?

Yes, a parent can bring an urgent motion asking the family court to change parenting time where the other parent's home is under active investigation…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a family arbitration clause in a separation agreement be enforced if one party later objects?

Generally, yes, if the clause and the surrounding agreement meet the formalities Ontario's family law framework requires, a party who later has second…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does an out-of-country payor's arrears get enforced if they have no assets in Canada?

Enforcing support against a payor who has left Canada entirely, with no remaining assets or income here, is significantly harder than enforcing against…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can enforcement proceed against arrears even after the underlying support order has ended?

Yes. The end of a support order or agreement, whether because a child has aged out, the term expired, or the parties otherwise reached the end of the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How do I enforce a divorce order in Ontario if my ex-spouse does not comply?

If your divorce order includes child support or spousal support and your ex-spouse stops paying, the Family Responsibility Office (FRO) is the primary…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can support enforcement tools be used against a self-employed payor who has no traditional employer?

Yes, a payor being self-employed doesn't put them outside the reach of support enforcement, though it can change which tools are most effective. Since…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

We were married for eight months and have no children. Do I have any claim to support?

After an eight-month marriage without children, entitlement to spousal support is possible but difficult to establish. Courts and the Spousal Support…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I file an equalization claim in Ontario while still legally married but separated?

Yes. Divorce is not required to bring an equalization claim in Ontario. Once spouses have separated — meaning they have decided to live separate and…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a locked-in pension be divided for equalization in Ontario?

A locked-in pension — one with restrictions on early withdrawal because it originates from workplace pension funds — can still be divided as part of…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If we sell the matrimonial home, how are the proceeds related to equalization in Ontario?

Selling the matrimonial home is often the central financial event in a separation. The net proceeds — after paying off the mortgage, real estate fees,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can equalization affect my disability benefits or government assistance in Ontario?

Receiving an equalization payment can affect eligibility for means-tested government programs in Ontario, including the Ontario Disability Support…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is there land transfer tax when property is transferred between spouses for equalization in Ontario?

Ontario provides an exemption from provincial land transfer tax when real property is transferred between spouses (or former spouses) as part of a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does my spouse's student debt reduce their net family property in equalization?

Yes. A spouse's student debt is a liability that reduces their net family property in the equalization calculation. Under the Family Law Act, a spouse…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to equalization rights if a spouse dies in Ontario?

Under Ontario's Family Law Act, a surviving spouse can choose between receiving their inheritance under the deceased spouse's will (or intestacy rules…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do I have to be divorced to receive an equalization payment in Ontario?

No. You do not need to be divorced to receive or pay an equalization payment in Ontario. The right to equalization arises when the marriage breaks down…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How does equalization work if this is a second marriage in Ontario?

Equalization works the same way in a second marriage as in a first. Each spouse calculates their net family property at the date of separation by…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does settling equalization affect my ability to remarry in Ontario?

Settling equalization itself does not affect your ability to remarry. Remarriage in Canada requires a formal divorce order under the Divorce Act —…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does equalization apply the same way in a very short marriage in Ontario?

The standard equalization formula applies regardless of how long the marriage lasted — there is no minimum duration. A marriage of one year or two…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If I earn money or buy property after we separate, is it shared in equalization?

No. Assets acquired after the valuation date — which is typically the date of separation — are not included in either spouse's net family property for…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If my parents gave us money for a down payment, does that reduce the equalization payment?

Money received as a gift from someone other than your spouse during the marriage can be excluded from your net family property — meaning it does not…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can RRSP funds be transferred tax-free as part of an equalization payment in Ontario?

Yes. Under the Income Tax Act (a federal law that applies in Ontario and all provinces), RRSP funds can be transferred directly from one spouse's RRSP…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What if the only significant asset is the matrimonial home? How does equalization work?

When the matrimonial home is the primary or only significant asset, the equalization calculation still applies but the practical outcome often reduces…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Which province's law applies to equalization if spouses lived in different provinces?

Family property division in Canada is governed by provincial law, not federal law (except for pension division under federal statutes). Ontario's…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What evidence is needed to show a payor is capable of higher-paying work than they currently do?

Showing that a payor is capable of higher-paying work generally starts with their own history: prior earnings in the same or a similar role, their…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What evidence does a support recipient need to bring to a default hearing?

At a default hearing, the recipient benefits from being able to show the court a clear, organized picture of what is owed and what has actually been…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What evidence is needed to prove a pattern of coercive control rather than a single incident?

Because coercive control is defined by a repeated pattern rather than one event, the strongest evidence tends to be whatever documents that pattern…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What evidence best supports a grandparent's application when a parent alleges the relationship is harmful?

When a parent alleges that contact with a grandparent is actually harmful to the child, the grandparent's strongest response is usually specific,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What property is excluded from equalization when married spouses separate in Ontario?

Under the Family Law Act, certain types of property are excluded from a spouse's net family property calculation, meaning their value does not factor…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does an exclusive possession order continue after the final property settlement in Ontario?

Generally, an exclusive possession order becomes moot or is superseded once the final property issues are resolved. If a separation agreement or court…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Who pays the mortgage if I have exclusive possession of the matrimonial home in Ontario?

An exclusive possession order does not automatically determine who pays the mortgage or other carrying costs of the matrimonial home. The order…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens if both spouses want to stay in the matrimonial home after separation?

When both spouses want to remain in the matrimonial home and cannot agree, either can bring an exclusive possession motion and ask the court to decide.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If my spouse has exclusive possession, can I still visit or enter the matrimonial home in Ontario?

No. An exclusive possession order means the other spouse must vacate and not return without the permission of the occupying spouse or a court order.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I get exclusive possession of a cottage or second home that is a matrimonial home in Ontario?

Yes. Exclusive possession orders can apply to any property that qualifies as a matrimonial home under the Family Law Act, including a cottage or…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How does exclusive possession of the matrimonial home affect my children's living arrangements?

Exclusive possession orders often arise precisely because of children. Courts prioritize stability and continuity for children of a marriage, and…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does an exclusive possession order affect spousal or child support in Ontario?

An exclusive possession order does not automatically change support obligations, but the financial reality of the arrangement often feeds into support…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does it matter who earns more income when a court decides exclusive possession in Ontario?

Income is one of the factors courts consider when deciding exclusive possession, but it is not determinative on its own. The court looks at the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do I need a lawyer to apply for exclusive possession of the matrimonial home in Ontario?

You are not legally required to have a lawyer to apply for exclusive possession — you can represent yourself (self-represented litigants are permitted…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can my spouse move their new partner into the matrimonial home while we're separated?

There is no automatic legal rule preventing a separated spouse from having someone else in the matrimonial home, but the circumstances matter greatly.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I get exclusive possession of the matrimonial home if we have no children?

Yes, exclusive possession can be granted even when there are no children, but it is harder to obtain. The children's best interests factor is often the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can an exclusive possession order be changed or cancelled in Ontario?

Yes. An exclusive possession order can be varied or terminated if there has been a material change in circumstances since the original order was made.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If I get exclusive possession of the matrimonial home, does my spouse have to pay rent somewhere else?

An exclusive possession order does not automatically include any financial adjustment for the spouse who must leave. That spouse will bear their own…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a court consider pets when deciding who gets exclusive possession of the matrimonial home?

Pets occupy an unusual legal position in Ontario family law. Pets occupy an unusual practical position in Ontario family law even though the statute…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I get exclusive possession of a rented apartment we both live in as a matrimonial home?

Yes. The exclusive possession provisions of Ontario's Family Law Act apply to the matrimonial home regardless of whether the couple owns it or rents…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can exclusive possession be granted if parenting time is equally shared in Ontario?

Equal parenting time does not prevent a court from granting exclusive possession, but it complicates the analysis. Where both parents spend equal time…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is an exclusive possession order permanent or temporary in Ontario?

An exclusive possession order under the Family Law Act is temporary, not permanent. It is a tool for managing the living situation during the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How long does it take to get an exclusive possession order in Ontario?

The timeline for obtaining an exclusive possession order depends on the urgency of the situation and the court's schedule. In genuine emergencies —…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I get an emergency exclusive possession order because my spouse is violent?

Yes. Domestic violence is one of the strongest grounds for an exclusive possession order, and courts can act urgently. An emergency motion can be…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Who is responsible for property taxes on the matrimonial home while exclusive possession is in effect?

The Family Law Act and an exclusive possession order do not automatically assign property tax responsibility. This is typically addressed either in the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can we agree to exclusive possession of the matrimonial home without going to court in Ontario?

Yes. Spouses can agree between themselves about possession of the matrimonial home without a court order. This is often the preferred approach — it is…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What factors does an Ontario court look at when deciding exclusive possession?

The Family Law Act sets out specific factors a court must consider when deciding whether to grant exclusive possession. The most important is the best…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What factors does a judge weigh when deciding how much to award in costs?

Ontario family courts have broad discretion under the Family Law Rules when deciding costs, and a judge weighs a range of factors rather than applying…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent's failure to apply for available government benefits lead to income being imputed?

Yes, where a parent could reasonably access government benefits or programs that would supplement or replace lost income, such as employment insurance…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if the other parent reports false child protection concerns to try to gain an advantage in our case?

Making a report to a children's aid society that turns out to be false, or made in bad faith to gain an advantage in a parenting dispute, doesn't just…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What training must a family arbitrator have under Ontario's rules?

Ontario's arbitration legislation sets out specific qualification and training requirements a person must meet before they can act as a family…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Are family court costs awards different from costs awards in civil litigation?

Family court costs share the same basic idea as civil litigation costs — the losing or less successful party often contributes to the other side's…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a family court judge order a children's aid society to release its file in a parenting dispute?

A family court judge can order a children's aid society to produce relevant parts of its file in a parenting dispute, but it isn't automatic - a party…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How is spousal support enforced in Ontario if my ex stops paying?

In Ontario, all spousal support orders made by a court are automatically filed with the Family Responsibility Office (FRO) unless both parties opt out.…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can dividends paid through a family trust be attributed as income for child support?

Yes, courts can look through a family trust structure and attribute dividend income flowing to or through it to a support payor where the structure is…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is training in family violence screening mandatory for parenting coordinators in Ontario?

Unlike family arbitrators, who are subject to specific, legislated training requirements including family violence and power-imbalance screening,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a federal licence, like a passport or pilot's licence, be suspended for unpaid support?

Yes, pursuing suspension of a federal licence is one of the enforcement tools available to the Family Responsibility Office for persistent, unaddressed…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between the Federal and Ontario Child Support Guidelines?

Two sets of Child Support Guidelines apply in Ontario depending on the legal relationship between the parents. The Federal Child Support Guidelines…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can Ontario family court filing fees be waived if a party can't afford them?

Yes. Ontario has a process that allows a person who genuinely can't afford family court filing fees to apply to have those fees waived, based on their…

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