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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can we do an uncontested divorce if we have property to divide in Ontario?

Yes, but property issues must be resolved before or alongside the uncontested divorce — they cannot be left open. An uncontested divorce means there is…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is intentional underemployment treated differently if the parent has a documented disability?

Yes. A documented disability that genuinely limits a parent's ability to work at their previous level, or at all, is one of the clearest circumstances…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What test does a court use to decide whether a support-paying parent is deliberately underemployed?

Under the Federal Child Support Guidelines, a court can impute income to a parent it finds is intentionally underemployed or unemployed, meaning their…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can undue hardship be claimed by the recipient parent, not just the payor?

Yes. The undue hardship provisions in the Federal Child Support Guidelines are available to either parent, not just the person paying support, so a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can undue hardship arguments succeed based on extraordinarily high debt from the marriage itself?

Yes, unusually high debts reasonably incurred to support the family during the relationship are expressly recognized under the Federal Child Support…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does an undue hardship claim get proven when a payor is also supporting children from a new relationship?

Supporting children from a new relationship is one of the specific circumstances the Federal Child Support Guidelines recognize as potentially…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does an undue hardship order automatically expire, or does it need to be reviewed periodically?

An undue hardship adjustment does not automatically expire on its own after a set period; it generally remains in effect as part of the support order…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can undue hardship be claimed because of high travel costs to exercise parenting time?

High travel costs incurred to exercise parenting time are among the specific circumstances the Federal Child Support Guidelines recognize as a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How is undue hardship different from simply asking for a downward adjustment to the table amount?

Undue hardship is a specific, defined mechanism under the Federal Child Support Guidelines that lets a court adjust support away from the standard…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does an unfounded or closed CAS investigation still get referenced in a later parenting dispute?

It can be, even though it wasn't substantiated. An unfounded or closed investigation doesn't disappear from the record entirely, and either parent can…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do we have to update our separation agreement if one parent's income changes significantly in Ontario?

Child support is the area most affected by income changes, and it is also the area where an update may be legally required even without both parties…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can an urgent motion be brought entirely in writing without a court appearance?

In some circumstances, yes — the Family Law Rules allow certain motions, including some urgent ones, to be decided based entirely on written materials,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can an out-of-province parenting order be varied by an Ontario court, or must it go back to the original province?

Generally, an Ontario court is cautious about varying a parenting order made by another Canadian province's court, and will typically only do so where…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parenting time order be varied because of an open protection concern raised by a children's aid society?

Yes - either parent can bring a motion to change, asking the family court to vary an existing parenting time order because of a protection concern…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How are vested stock options treated as income when calculating child support in Ontario?

Stock options that have vested and are exercised generally result in a real financial benefit to the parent, the difference between the exercise price…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can someone be declared a vexatious litigant in Ontario family court after repeated meritless filings?

Yes. Where a party has a documented pattern of bringing repeated proceedings, motions, or appeals that are without merit, and the pattern shows the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the difference between a voluntary services agreement and a temporary care and custody agreement?

Both are voluntary arrangements a parent can enter into with a children's aid society, but they involve very different levels of intervention. A…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the process for garnishing wages directly from a payor's employer through the FRO?

Wage garnishment through the Family Responsibility Office generally works through a support deduction order, which directs a payor's employer to deduct…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What weight does a court give to a child's wishes about seeing extended family after separation?

A child's own wishes about seeing extended family, including grandparents, aunts, uncles, or siblings, are one of the factors a court weighs under the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What are special or extraordinary expenses and how are they shared in Ontario?

On top of the monthly base amount, the Child Support Guidelines provide for "special or extraordinary expenses" — often called "section 7 expenses" —…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What assets can be excluded from net family property in Ontario?

The Family Law Act lists specific categories of property that a spouse may exclude from their net family property. These include: gifts or inheritances…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Which debts can be deducted when calculating net family property in Ontario?

When calculating net family property, a spouse subtracts all debts and liabilities owed on the valuation date. This includes mortgages, car loans,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What decisions count as 'major decisions' under decision-making responsibility?

Major decisions covered by decision-making responsibility typically include: choice of school and school type (public, private, French immersion,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What documents do I need to start a divorce in Ontario?

To begin a divorce in Ontario, you file with the Ontario Superior Court of Justice. The main document is the Application for Divorce — either a joint…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What does 'separation' actually mean under Ontario law?

In Ontario, "separation" does not require any formal court filing or government registration. A married couple is considered separated from the date…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What factors does an Ontario court consider when deciding spousal support?

Ontario courts weigh a broad set of factors when deciding whether to award support and how much. Under the Divorce Act, the court must consider the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What financial information do we have to share with each other during separation in Ontario?

Full financial disclosure is a fundamental requirement for a valid and enforceable separation agreement in Ontario. The general principle is that each…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What actually happens at a first case conference in an Ontario family court case?

A first case conference is an informal, non-evidentiary meeting with a judge, required under the Family Law Rules before most contested motions can be…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens at a trial management conference right before a family trial?

A trial management conference is held shortly before the trial date and focuses on the practical logistics of the trial itself, rather than on…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What can I do if my ex is denying me my court-ordered parenting time?

A parenting order made by an Ontario court is legally binding. If your co-parent is consistently refusing to let you see your child as ordered, you…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to decision-making authority if the parent with sole custody dies?

If the parent who holds sole decision-making responsibility dies, the surviving parent does not automatically resume full parental authority in all…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What can I do if my ex-spouse is not following our separation agreement in Ontario?

If your ex-spouse is not complying with a separation agreement in Ontario, your first step is to file the agreement with the court, if you have not…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens if my spouse won't sign a separation agreement?

If your spouse refuses to negotiate or sign a separation agreement, you cannot force them to do so — agreements are voluntary contracts. However, their…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to our joint bank accounts when we separate in Ontario?

When married spouses in Ontario separate, joint bank accounts are part of the net family property calculation. The balance in a joint account as of the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to the matrimonial home when we divorce in Ontario?

Divorce does not automatically transfer ownership of the matrimonial home. Ownership and possession are separate questions from equalization. On…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens when parents with joint decision-making can't agree on a major decision?

When parents share joint decision-making and cannot agree on a major decision, the matter must be resolved — neither parent can simply proceed…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to spousal support payments if the recipient dies?

Spousal support obligations generally terminate on the death of the recipient. Because the purpose of support is to meet the recipient's personal…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How is a business valued in an Ontario equalization calculation?

If one or both spouses own a business, the business interest is an asset that must be valued as of the valuation date and included in that spouse's net…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to arrangements for children when we divorce in Ontario?

When a divorce involves children under 19, the court must be satisfied that reasonable arrangements have been made for each child's financial support…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to joint debts when we divorce in Ontario?

Under Ontario's family property equalization system, debts reduce a spouse's net family property — meaning debts are factored into who owes whom the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to the matrimonial home when married spouses separate in Ontario?

The matrimonial home has special protection under Ontario's Family Law Act. Unlike other property, both spouses have an equal right to possession of…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How are pensions treated in Ontario property equalization?

Pensions are property under the Family Law Act and must be included in net family property. The portion of a pension that accrued during the marriage…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to property I owned before I got married when we separate?

Property you owned when you got married is deducted from your net family property — you subtract its value (at the date of marriage) from your assets…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to RRSPs when married spouses separate in Ontario?

In Ontario, RRSP balances are included in the net family property calculation for married spouses. The value of each spouse's RRSP on the date of…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to spousal support if the recipient gets remarried?

Remarriage by the support recipient is a material change in circumstances that can justify reducing or terminating spousal support, but it does not…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What do I do if I cannot find my marriage certificate to file for divorce?

You must provide proof of your marriage when filing for divorce in Ontario — the court will not process the application without it. If you have…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens if my co-parent objects to me relocating with our child?

If you give the required notice of relocation and your co-parent objects, they must file a court application within 30 days of receiving your notice.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens if my spouse cannot afford to pay the equalization payment?

Inability to pay the equalization amount in a lump sum does not eliminate the obligation, but courts have tools to accommodate financial hardship.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What can I do if I think my spouse is hiding assets in our equalization process?

If you suspect your spouse is hiding assets or undervaluing property in the equalization process, Ontario family law courts have strong tools to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What can I do if my spouse refuses to leave the house after we separate in Ontario?

If your spouse refuses to leave the matrimonial home after separation, your first option is to try to reach a voluntary arrangement — sometimes…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens to the separation period if we try to reconcile but it doesn't work out?

The Divorce Act has a built-in allowance for reconciliation attempts. If you and your spouse resume cohabitation within the one-year separation period…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What counts as income when calculating child support in Ontario?

Under the Child Support Guidelines, "income" means your total annual income as set out in your federal income tax return, with adjustments. This…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is a case management judge and how do they oversee a family file?

In courthouses that offer case management, a case management judge is a single judge assigned to oversee a particular family file continuously, rather…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a cohabitation agreement and do common-law couples need one in Ontario?

A cohabitation agreement is a written contract between two people who are living together (or plan to live together) outside of marriage. In Ontario,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is a declaration of parentage and when is it needed after a surrogacy birth?

A declaration of parentage is a court order from the Ontario Superior Court of Justice that formally establishes who a child's legal parents are. It is…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a marriage contract and can it change our property rights in Ontario?

A marriage contract — sometimes called a prenuptial agreement (before marriage) or postnuptial agreement (after marriage) — is a domestic contract…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a 'matrimonial home' under Ontario family law?

Under Ontario's Family Law Act, a matrimonial home is any property that a married couple ordinarily occupied as their family residence on the date they…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is a motion to change and when can it be used instead of starting a fresh application?

A motion to change is the standard process for asking a court to vary an existing final family court order or a filed agreement dealing with support,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a separation agreement in Ontario?

A separation agreement is a written contract between two spouses (or former common-law partners) that sets out the terms of their separation. In…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is an equalization payment in Ontario family law?

An equalization payment is a lump-sum or structured payment made by one spouse to the other at the end of a marriage to balance the economic gains each…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is an uncontested divorce in Ontario?

An uncontested divorce is one where both spouses agree on all the issues related to the end of their marriage — parenting arrangements, child support,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a Certificate of Divorce and when do I need one?

A Certificate of Divorce is an official document issued by the Ontario Superior Court of Justice that confirms your divorce is final and legally…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How is child support calculated under the guidelines in Ontario?

Child support in Ontario is calculated using the federal Child Support Guidelines, which apply to all cases involving children of separating or…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is collaborative divorce and how does it work in Ontario?

Collaborative divorce is a structured dispute resolution process in which both spouses and their lawyers commit in writing to resolving all issues…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is compensatory spousal support and how is it different from needs-based support?

Ontario law recognizes three main bases for entitlement to spousal support: compensatory, non-compensatory (needs-based), and contractual (based on an…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What does 'decision-making responsibility' mean in Ontario family law?

"Decision-making responsibility" is the term used in the federal Divorce Act for what used to be called "legal custody." It refers to the authority to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a desk divorce in Ontario?

A "desk divorce" is the informal term Ontarians use for an uncontested divorce that is processed by a judge reviewing the written materials — without…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What does a 50/50 parenting time arrangement look like in Ontario?

A 50/50 or "equal parenting time" arrangement means the child spends roughly half their time with each parent. Common schedules include alternating…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is an exclusive possession order for the matrimonial home in Ontario?

An exclusive possession order is a court order that gives one spouse the right to live in the matrimonial home to the exclusion of the other, even if…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is family mediation and should I try it before going to court in Ontario?

Family mediation is a process where a neutral, trained third party (the mediator) helps you and your spouse work through disagreements about parenting,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What financial disclosure is required in an Ontario equalization case?

Full and frank financial disclosure is a cornerstone of equalization proceedings in Ontario. Both spouses must complete a sworn financial statement…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What counts as a marriage breakdown for the purpose of divorce in Ontario?

Under the federal Divorce Act, which applies throughout Canada including Ontario, a divorce can only be granted on the basis of marriage breakdown. The…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What counts as a material change in circumstances for parenting orders in Ontario?

A "material change in circumstances" is the legal threshold that must be met before a court will reconsider an existing parenting order. The change…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is 'net family property' and why does it matter when we separate in Ontario?

Net family property (NFP) is a concept under Ontario's Family Law Act that is central to how married spouses divide their assets when they separate.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is parallel parenting and when is it used in Ontario?

Parallel parenting is a co-parenting model designed for high-conflict situations where direct communication between parents is not safe or productive.…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What does 'parenting time' mean under Ontario family law?

"Parenting time" is the term used in the federal Divorce Act to describe the time a child spends with each parent after separation. It replaced the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is property equalization in Ontario family law?

When a marriage ends in Ontario, spouses do not automatically split everything down the middle. Instead, the law uses a process called property…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What should a proposed parenting plan in a relocation case include?

Under the Divorce Act, a parent who gives notice of a proposed relocation must include a proposed parenting plan as part of that notice. Courts and the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What counts as a 'relocation' under Ontario and federal family law?

Under the federal Divorce Act, "relocation" has a specific legal meaning: it is a change in residence by a child or a parent that would be likely to…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is there such a thing as a 'legal separation' certificate in Ontario?

No. Ontario does not issue "legal separation" certificates or orders. Separation is a factual state — it occurs when you and your spouse decide to live…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

When does one spouse have to pay spousal support after divorce in Ontario?

Spousal support is not automatic in every divorce. Under the Divorce Act, a court will order spousal support only if there is entitlement — meaning the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is spousal support and who can ask for it in Ontario?

Spousal support is a payment from one spouse to the other after separation or divorce. Its purpose is to address financial disadvantage caused by the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is the equalization payment the same as child support in Ontario?

No — equalization and child support are completely different obligations. Equalization is a property entitlement between spouses: it divides the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What happens if both spouses have the same net family property?

If both spouses calculate identical net family property figures, the equalization payment is zero. The formula — pay half the difference — produces…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is there a deadline to claim or enforce an equalization payment in Ontario?

Yes. A court application to receive an equalization payment must be started within two years of the date a divorce order is made, within six years of…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is there a deadline to make an equalization claim in Ontario?

Yes. Ontario imposes strict deadlines for equalization claims. Under the Family Law Act, a court application for equalization must be started within…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do I really have to wait a year before I can get divorced in Ontario?

In most cases, yes. The Divorce Act requires that you and your spouse have been separated for at least one year before a judge will grant a divorce…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What date is used to value property for equalization in Ontario?

Under the Family Law Act, the valuation date is generally the earliest of: the date the spouses separated with no reasonable prospect of resuming…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the 'valuation date' and how does it affect the matrimonial home calculation in Ontario?

The valuation date is the date used to calculate each spouse's net family property for the equalization process. Under the Family Law Act, the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What types of property are included in net family property in Ontario?

Net family property includes virtually every type of asset a spouse owns at the valuation date: real estate (including the matrimonial home and…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What legal rights do I have from the moment we separate in Ontario?

Once you are separated in Ontario, a number of legal rights and obligations come into effect immediately. The key areas are property, spousal support,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What issues should a separation agreement cover in Ontario?

A well-drafted separation agreement in Ontario should address all the major issues arising from the separation so that both parties have a clear,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

At what point does entitlement to spousal support arise — at separation, or at divorce?

Entitlement to spousal support can arise at separation, not only upon divorce. Under the Family Law Act, a married or qualifying common-law spouse can…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

When does an equalization payment have to be paid in Ontario?

There is no single fixed deadline for paying equalization — it depends on how the matter is resolved. If spouses negotiate a separation agreement, they…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Who gets to stay in the house during separation if we both own it in Ontario?

If you are a married couple and the home is the matrimonial home, both of you have an equal right to live there after separation, regardless of who…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is a 'without notice' (ex parte) motion and when is it justified in a family violence situation?

A "without notice" motion, sometimes called ex parte, is a request to the court for an order made without telling the other party beforehand or giving…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is a writ of seizure and sale and how does it get used to collect unpaid support?

A writ of seizure and sale is an enforcement instrument filed with the sheriff's office that allows a debt, including unpaid support, to be collected…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What written agreement should be in place before starting a surrogacy arrangement in Ontario?

Before conception, intended parents and the surrogate (and her spouse or partner, if she has one) should sign a written agreement addressing who is…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What must be shown to get a written finding of contempt registered against a parent for denying parenting time?

To obtain a written contempt finding, the parent bringing the motion generally needs to satisfy the court, to a high standard of proof, that a clear…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is written correspondence with the child enough to preserve a grandparent's future standing claim?

Written correspondence - cards, letters, messages - can help, but it's unlikely to be enough on its own to establish standing if it's the only form of…

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