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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can the other parent use an open children's aid society file against me in our parenting case?

An open file, by itself, isn't proof of anything - it means a concern was reported and is being looked into, not that anything has been substantiated.…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a surrogacy arrangement made outside Ontario still be recognized under Ontario parentage law?

It can be, but recognition isn't automatic just because the arrangement was valid where it was made — Ontario applies its own parentage rules to…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a payor use an accidental overpayment of support to offset arrears they owe later?

An accidental overpayment isn't automatically lost, but it also isn't something a payor can simply apply against future arrears on their own say-so.…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a parent have to justify cutting off a grandparent's contact, or is it presumed to be their right?

A parent doesn't need a court's permission in advance to limit or end a grandparent's contact, and a fit parent's own judgment about who spends time…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if one parent refuses to comply with a parenting coordinator's decision?

What happens next depends heavily on how the parenting coordination arrangement was set up, since the coordinator's own authority to enforce a decision…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a written parentage agreement need independent legal advice for each party to be valid?

Independent legal advice for each party is a standard and strongly recommended part of a valid pre-conception parentage agreement, and its absence can…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does a court resolve a parentage dispute if intended parents separate before the child is born?

If intended parents separate before the child is born, the surrogacy arrangement doesn't automatically fall apart, but it does complicate how parentage…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to legal parentage if the intended parents divorce after the child is born via surrogacy?

Once legal parentage has been established after a surrogacy birth — whether through the automatic route or a court declaration of parentage — it does…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to legal parentage if the surrogate is married or has a partner?

If a surrogate is married or has a partner, that spouse or partner generally also needs to be part of the process — the automatic parentage route…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How is parentage determined when a child is conceived through reciprocal IVF between two mothers?

In reciprocal IVF, one partner's egg is fertilized and the resulting embryo is carried and delivered by the other partner, so the child has a genetic…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a parenting coordinator's appointment expire, or does it need periodic renewal?

Whether and when a parenting coordinator's appointment expires is generally a matter of what the parenting coordination agreement itself says, rather…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parenting coordinator change a parenting schedule without both parents' consent?

This depends entirely on what authority the parents gave the coordinator in their parenting coordination agreement. Many agreements do give the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How much does hiring a parenting coordinator typically cost compared to litigating the same disputes?

It isn't possible to state a reliable dollar figure for either option, since both depend heavily on the professional involved, how complex and frequent…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What day-to-day decisions can a parenting coordinator make without going back to court?

A parenting coordinator's authority comes entirely from the agreement the parents sign when they retain one, so exactly what they can decide varies…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parenting coordinator make decisions about extracurricular activities without a hearing?

Disputes about extracurricular activities are among the more common issues parenting coordination agreements are specifically designed to cover, since…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does a parenting coordinator handle a dispute that falls outside their defined scope?

A parenting coordinator generally isn't authorized to simply decide an issue that falls outside the scope set out in the parenting coordination…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What liability protection or insurance do parenting coordinators typically carry?

Because parenting coordinators typically come from professions like mental health practice, mediation, or law, many carry professional liability…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parenting coordinator be brought in mid-litigation, or only after a final order?

A parenting coordinator can generally be brought in at either point, since the arrangement is created by the parents' own agreement rather than being…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is a parenting coordinator and how can they help in Ontario?

A parenting coordinator is a neutral professional — often a social worker, psychologist, or lawyer — who helps high-conflict families implement and…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What professional background do parenting coordinators typically have in Ontario?

Parenting coordinators in Ontario typically come from one of two general professional backgrounds: mental health professionals, such as social workers…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does hiring a parenting coordinator require a court order, or can parents agree privately?

Parents generally do not need a court order to bring in a parenting coordinator; this is typically a private, consent-based arrangement the parents…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if a parenting coordinator resigns partway through a case?

If a parenting coordinator resigns before the arrangement's term is up, the parents are generally left needing to either find a replacement coordinator…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parenting coordinator be called to testify in court about a dispute they resolved?

Whether a parenting coordinator can be called to testify about a dispute they resolved generally depends on what the parenting coordination agreement…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Do parenting coordinators have to keep records of the decisions they make?

Because parenting coordination isn't governed by a dedicated Ontario statute, there isn't one uniform, legislated record-keeping requirement that…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parenting time order still be enforced while a child protection case is open?

Yes. An existing parenting time order made under the Divorce Act or the Children's Law Reform Act doesn't get suspended automatically just because a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can police help enforce a parenting order if my ex won't return my child?

A standard Ontario parenting order does not include automatic police enforcement — police will not show up to enforce a schedule the way they enforce,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How do we handle parenting arrangements in our separation agreement in Ontario?

A separation agreement in Ontario should include a parenting plan that sets out how each parent will be involved in the children's lives after…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do we need a formal parenting plan in an uncontested divorce in Ontario?

When an uncontested divorce involves children under 19, you must provide the court with information about parenting arrangements as part of your…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parenting plan require a stepparent to attend co-parenting counselling with the biological parents?

A parenting plan or separation agreement is generally an agreement between the child's own parents, so it can't impose a binding legal obligation…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a parenting plan need rules for introducing a child to a new partner's own children?

There's no legal requirement to include specific rules about introducing a child to a new partner's children in a parenting plan, but many parents…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What is the difference between a parenting plan and a court order in Ontario?

A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents that sets out how they will share time and responsibilities for their children after…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens to a parenting schedule if a children's aid society removes the child from one parent's home?

If a society removes a child and places them in its own care - whether by agreement or court order - the existing parenting schedule between the two…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How does a Children's Aid Society investigation affect parenting time in Ontario?

A Children's Aid Society (CAS) investigation can significantly affect parenting time, at least temporarily. If CAS receives a report of concern about a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What should I do if my child refuses to go to their other parent's home?

A child refusing to attend parenting time is one of the most difficult and emotionally charged situations in family law. The right response depends…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What can I do if the other parent is denying my parenting time in Ontario?

In Ontario, denying parenting time without a valid reason is taken seriously by courts and can have legal consequences for the parent who is…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Does a history of domestic violence affect parenting time in Ontario?

Yes, significantly. Under the federal Divorce Act, family violence is a mandatory consideration in the best interests analysis. Courts must assess the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How is parenting time typically split for holidays and summers in Ontario?

Holiday and summer schedules are almost always addressed separately from the regular parenting time schedule, because the stakes — long weekends,…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I ask a court to reduce parenting time because of my co-parent's mental health issues?

Mental health is a factor courts consider when assessing a child's safety and wellbeing in the care of a parent, but a diagnosis alone does not…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can my co-parent stop me from introducing our child to my new partner?

During your parenting time, decisions about who the child interacts with are generally yours to make. Introducing the child to a new partner, when done…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What parenting time arrangements are common after divorce in Ontario?

Ontario family courts do not mandate any particular parenting schedule, and the right arrangement depends on the children's ages, both parents' work…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How do courts handle parenting time when a parent has a substance use problem?

Substance use by a parent is a serious concern in parenting proceedings because it directly affects the safety and wellbeing of a child in that…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent's parenting time be suspended immediately if a children's aid society raises safety concerns?

A children's aid society itself cannot suspend a family court parenting order - only a court can change an existing order. But a society raising a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do I need the other parent's permission to travel internationally with my child?

Yes. Taking a child out of Canada typically requires either written consent from all parents with parenting rights or a court order authorizing the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if parents can't agree on who to hire as an arbitrator or parenting coordinator?

Both arbitration and parenting coordination are voluntary, consent-based processes, so if the parents genuinely can't agree on who should fill either…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a payor get their suspended licence back by making a partial payment?

It's possible, but not automatic. Reinstating a licence after a support-related suspension depends on satisfying the Family Responsibility Office that…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How are costs calculated on a partial indemnity versus substantial indemnity basis?

Partial indemnity costs recover only a portion of a party's actual reasonable legal fees, and represent the default, more modest scale a court applies…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if a party ignores a costs order and doesn't pay?

A costs order that isn't paid becomes a debt owed to the other party, and it's generally enforced the same way any other unpaid court judgment would…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if one party doesn't show up for a scheduled case conference?

If one party doesn't attend a scheduled case conference, the conference generally still goes ahead with the party who did show up, and the judge has…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if a party doesn't show up for a scheduled family arbitration session?

What happens generally depends on the arbitration agreement's own terms and the arbitrator's approach to managing the process, since there isn't one…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a passport application be blocked over unpaid child support arrears in Ontario?

Yes. Among the enforcement tools available to the Family Responsibility Office is the ability to pursue suspension of certain federal licences,…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a payor's pattern of under-reporting income in past years increase scrutiny in a new application?

Yes, a documented history of under-reporting income is relevant evidence a court can consider in a new support application, since it goes directly to…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can enforcement action be paused while a motion to change the support amount is pending?

Filing a motion to change doesn't automatically stop the Family Responsibility Office's enforcement of the existing order; the current support terms…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if a payor declares bankruptcy while owing support arrears?

Support obligations are treated differently from most ordinary debts when a payor declares bankruptcy. Generally, child and spousal support arrears are…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if a payor ignores repeated notices from the Family Responsibility Office?

Ignoring notices from the Family Responsibility Office doesn't make the underlying support obligation or the enforcement process go away; it generally…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does the court address a payor who repeatedly changes jobs to avoid a stable income assessment?

A pattern of frequent job changes, particularly where each move coincides with a support review or otherwise seems timed to keep income difficult to…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a peace bond be renewed if the underlying safety concerns continue after it expires?

A peace bond doesn't renew itself automatically once it expires — it's a time-limited order, and if the underlying safety concerns continue, the person…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is required to get a peace bond compared to a restraining order under the Criminal Code?

A peace bond is obtained under the Criminal Code by laying an information before a justice of the peace and showing reasonable grounds to fear that…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Is a pension divided when married spouses separate in Ontario?

Yes. In Ontario, pension benefits earned during the marriage are included in the net family property calculation and are subject to equalization. This…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can Interpol or a 'port alert' (lookout) be used to stop a child leaving Canada in an abduction risk case?

Yes, there are border-focused tools available in a genuine abduction risk case, generally requested through a family lawyer and often supported by a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does a parent's history of income before separation affect how income is imputed after?

Yes, pre-separation income history is usually one of the most important pieces of evidence courts consider when deciding whether to impute income after…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Is there a difference in procedure for a motion to change support versus a motion to change parenting time?

The basic motion to change process is the same regardless of whether it deals with support or parenting time — both require showing a material change…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens procedurally when a motion to change is contested by the other party?

When a motion to change is contested, it generally moves through a similar procedural path to other contested family court matters — the responding…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What proof does a clinic or hospital need before listing intended parents on a birth registration?

Hospitals and clinics generally rely on the parents to provide the documentation that supports registering a birth under Ontario's parentage rules —…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What personal property can be seized under a writ to satisfy a support arrears debt?

Once a writ of seizure and sale is filed to enforce a support debt, it can extend to personal property the payor owns, not just real estate. In general…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can our separation agreement address international travel with the children in Ontario?

Yes, and it is a good idea to do so. Ontario family courts strongly encourage parenting plans to address international travel because disputes about…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does a protection finding of neglect or abuse translate into a family court parenting order?

A protection court's finding that a child was neglected or abused doesn't automatically become a family court parenting order - the two are separate…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I get a court order for protection from my spouse during separation in Ontario?

Yes. Ontario's legal system has several tools for protecting individuals from a spouse or partner during separation. Under the Family Law Act, you can…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a protection order obtained in one Ontario city be enforced if the other party moves to a different city?

Yes — a restraining order or similar protection order made by an Ontario family court is valid and enforceable throughout the province, not just in the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How does a party prove the other side acted in bad faith to justify a costs award?

Proving bad faith for costs purposes generally means showing a pattern of conduct that goes beyond ordinary hard-fought litigation — things like…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I buy out my spouse's interest in our matrimonial home as part of our separation?

Yes, one of the most common ways to resolve the matrimonial home is for one spouse to buy out the other. This involves determining the current market…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent avoid imputed income by proving they've made reasonable efforts to find work?

Yes, demonstrating genuine, reasonable job search efforts is one of the strongest ways a parent can avoid having income imputed above their actual…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a support recipient request licence suspension directly, or does it happen automatically?

Licence suspension works through the Family Responsibility Office's own enforcement process rather than as something a recipient triggers directly on…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a party recover legal costs if the other side refused a reasonable settlement offer?

Yes, this is one of the main ways costs consequences arise in Ontario family court. Under the Family Law Rules, a formal written offer to settle can…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can I refuse to sign a temporary care and custody agreement offered by a children's aid society?

Yes, you can refuse to sign a temporary care and custody agreement - it is not a court order, and a society cannot compel your signature. Refusing…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is required to register a foreign divorce or parenting order for enforcement in Ontario?

Registering a foreign divorce or parenting order for enforcement in Ontario generally starts with providing the Ontario court with a certified copy of…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

How is an out-of-province support order registered and enforced in Ontario?

Ontario's Interjurisdictional Support Orders Act sets out a process for registering a support order made in another Canadian province, territory, or a…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can grandparents or other relatives be declared additional legal parents under Ontario's multi-parent provisions?

In principle, Ontario's multi-parent provisions are not limited to a specific list of relationships — what matters is whether the adults involved…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a religious council's ruling on parenting or property be binding in Ontario family law?

On its own, a religious council's ruling is not binding as a matter of Ontario family law. For a decision about parenting or property to count as an…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If our separation agreement restricts relocation, can it still be changed?

Yes, but the bar is meaningful. A separation agreement that includes a geographic restriction on relocation — preventing you from moving beyond a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Do the *Divorce Act* relocation rules apply if we were never married?

The federal Divorce Act applies only to married spouses who are divorcing. If you and your co-parent were never married, the Children's Law Reform…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can a separation agreement prevent one parent from moving away with the children in Ontario?

A separation agreement can include a relocation clause that sets out what happens if one parent wants to move — for example, requiring notice within a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I relocate with my child to be closer to my extended family?

Wanting to relocate to be near your family — parents, siblings, a support network — is a common and sympathetic reason to move. Courts recognize that a…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What if there is no court order yet — can my ex just move away with our child?

If there is no existing parenting order or separation agreement and a parent moves away with a child, the other parent can apply urgently to the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

How much notice do I have to give before moving away with my child in Ontario?

Under the federal Divorce Act, a parent who intends to relocate must give written notice to anyone else with parenting time or contact at least 60 days…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

What are my chances of winning a relocation case if I have a new job offer in another city?

A new job offer is a legitimate reason to want to relocate, but it does not guarantee a court will allow you to bring your child. Courts applying the…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

If I move to a different neighbourhood in the same city, do I need permission?

A move within the same city generally does not trigger the formal relocation rules under the Divorce Act because it is unlikely to have a "significant…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does remarriage automatically change decision-making responsibility or parenting time arrangements?

No. Remarriage, on its own, doesn't automatically change an existing decision-making responsibility or parenting time order or agreement - the existing…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Does remarrying automatically change my legal name, or do I need to apply separately?

Marriage itself doesn't automatically change your legal name in Ontario — your legal name stays whatever it was before the marriage unless and until…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the process for removing a parenting coordinator who isn't working out?

The process for removing a parenting coordinator generally depends on what the parenting coordination agreement says about ending or changing the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent claim rental property losses to reduce their income for child support purposes in Ontario?

A parent's rental property can genuinely reduce their guideline income where it operates at a real, ongoing cash loss, but courts generally scrutinize…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if a party brings repeated motions that the court sees as harassing the other side?

Ontario family courts take a dim view of repeated motions brought without genuine new grounds, particularly where the pattern suggests an intent to…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can one parent request a children's aid society investigate the other parent's home before a parenting trial?

A parent can report a genuine safety concern about the other parent's home to a children's aid society at any time, including while a parenting trial…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a parent request updates from a children's aid society if a protection case is affecting their parenting time?

A parent can ask a children's aid society for updates about a file that's affecting their parenting time, but the society isn't obligated to share…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is required to bring a motion without notice (ex parte) outside of urgent safety situations?

Outside a genuine safety emergency, bringing a motion without notice to the other party is still possible in certain narrow circumstances under the…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a restraining order include conditions about a shared home or matrimonial property?

A restraining order itself is primarily about contact and communication — no-contact, stay-away, and similar safety conditions — but it can be combined…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What happens if a restraining order and a family court parenting order seem to conflict?

When a restraining order and a parenting order appear to conflict — for example, a no-contact condition that doesn't clearly account for a required…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

What is the difference between a restraining order and a peace bond in a family violence situation?

A restraining order is a civil family court order, available under the Family Law Act or the Children's Law Reform Act, that restricts a person's…

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FamilyUpdated August 2026

Can a restraining order be obtained without notifying the other party first?

Yes, in genuinely urgent situations. Ontario family courts can grant a temporary restraining order on a "without notice" basis — meaning the other…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I claim retroactive child support going back several years in Ontario?

Yes, retroactive child support is possible in Ontario. Courts have authority to award support going back to a date before the application was filed —…

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FamilyUpdated June 2026

Can I claim spousal support for a period before I actually applied for it?

Yes, courts in Ontario have the power to order retroactive spousal support — an amount for a period before you filed your formal application. However,…

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