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Can I Stop Paying Spousal Support Because My Ex Is Working Again in Ontario?

TSL Written by the Treadstone Law Team· Updated November 1, 2026

Not on your own. Only a court can change a support order. Whether support can end turns on whether your ex has become self-sufficient and on what your order or agreement says, and courts decide this individually.

A recipient must make reasonable efforts to contribute to their own support, and courts can impute income, commonly minimum wage, to a recipient who is not making them. Once a recipient becomes self-sufficient, support can be terminated, but the decision is individualized and courts often decide 'not yet', reducing support or setting a future end date instead.

A court can vary, rescind or suspend a support order, retroactively or prospectively. Under the Divorce Act, before varying a spousal support order, the court must be satisfied that either former spouse's circumstances have changed since the order or the last variation. A variation requires a material change in circumstances, while a review is more like an initial application. Under the Divorce Act, if support was for a definite period or until a specified event, a court cannot resume it unless a variation is needed to relieve economic hardship from a related change and the changed circumstances would likely have produced a different original order. Get advice before you reduce any payments.

Key takeaways

  • Only a court can change a support order, and FRO cannot change the terms.
  • A recipient must make reasonable efforts to support themselves, and courts can impute income, commonly minimum wage, if they do not.
  • Once a recipient is self-sufficient support can end, but courts often decide 'not yet' and reduce it or set a future end date.
  • Under the Divorce Act, a court must be satisfied that circumstances have changed before it varies support, and time-limited orders face extra tests.
This is general information, not legal advice. It doesn’t create a lawyer–client relationship, and the rules can change. For advice on your situation, a Treadstone family lawyer can help.

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