The situation
Oksana called our office on a Tuesday afternoon, a few weeks into an argument that had been building since a roofer quoted her stepfather roughly $42,000 to replace the roof on the family home. 'He's saying the estate has to pay for it, and I don't think that's right, and honestly I don't even know what's right,' she said. 'The house isn't mine yet. It's not really his either. Whose problem is a roof?'
Oksana's mother had died about a year and a half earlier, leaving a will that gave her second husband, Taras, a pharmacist, the right to live in the family home outside Oshawa for the rest of his life, a life estate, with the house passing afterward to Oksana and her brother, Piotr, as the named remainder beneficiaries once Taras's interest ended. The home was worth roughly $1,200,000 to $1,500,000 on its own, and formed the bulk of an estate valued overall in the range of $1,200,000 to $2,500,000 once other assets were included. Oksana, an actuary by profession and comfortable with numbers generally, was named executor.
The arrangement had worked without friction for the first year. Taras continued living in the home he had shared with Oksana's mother for over a decade, paying the utility bills and keeping up with routine maintenance much as he always had. Oksana handled the estate's other administration quietly in the background, and the life estate itself was, for a while, the least complicated part of the file.
The roof changed that. It was original to the house, past its expected lifespan, and beginning to leak in two places by the time a roofer was called. Taras's position was that a structural repair of that size and permanence was properly the estate's, and eventually the remainder beneficiaries', responsibility, since it preserved the value of an asset that would ultimately belong to Oksana and Piotr, not something a life tenant on a fixed pension and pharmacist's income should have to absorb alone. Oksana's instinct, shared by Piotr, was that Taras lived there and used the home daily, and that living somewhere generally came with keeping it in good repair. Neither of them actually knew what the law said, and the will, thorough as it was about who would eventually inherit the house, said nothing at all about who paid for what while Taras lived in it.
Where it went wrong
The will's silence was not unusual, and it was not really an oversight so much as a gap that most wills creating a life estate share unless someone specifically raises it during drafting. A life estate divides the practical burdens of a property between two parties with different interests in it, and Ontario law fills gaps a will leaves open with a set of general default rules, rather than leaving the matter entirely to guesswork. Broadly, a life tenant is generally expected to bear the ordinary, recurring costs of occupying a property, things like property taxes, home insurance premiums, utilities, and routine maintenance, the kinds of costs an occupant benefits from day to day. Major structural repairs and capital improvements that preserve or restore the underlying value of the property, the kind of expense a new roof typically represents, are more commonly treated as a shared or remainder-beneficiary responsibility, on the reasoning that the people who will eventually own the asset outright benefit most from work that protects its long-term value.
That default framework existed, but it was a general starting point, not a precise formula, and applying it cleanly to a $42,000 roof replacement was harder than it sounded. Was the roof a capital repair restoring value, squarely on the remainder beneficiaries' side of the line, or did years of Taras deferring smaller maintenance push part of the cost toward ordinary upkeep he should have addressed earlier himself? Neither side had records showing what maintenance, if any, had actually been done on the roof in the years before Oksana's mother died, and without that history, the dispute risked becoming a disagreement about blame rather than a straightforward application of the default rule.
The relationship complicated the legal question further. Taras had been part of the family for over a decade and had no history of conflict with Oksana or Piotr; this was the first significant disagreement any of them could remember having with him. Oksana was reluctant to push hard on a cost dispute with her mother's widower so soon after her mother's death, but she also had a duty as executor to protect the remainder beneficiaries' interest in the estate, including her own and her brother's, and could not simply agree to pay a major repair bill from estate funds without a proper basis for doing so.
Underneath both of those problems sat a more basic one: nobody could say with confidence what Oksana's mother herself would have wanted, since she had never put anything about ongoing expenses into the will, and asking Taras or Oksana to guess at her intentions, a year and a half after the fact, was not a reliable way to resolve a real financial dispute between two people who both had a legitimate stake in the answer.
What we did
- Set out the applicable default framework for both sides in writing. We explained, in a memo shared with both Oksana and Taras's own lawyer, how Ontario law generally allocates expenses between a life tenant and remainder beneficiaries absent specific instructions in the will, giving both sides a shared starting point rather than each side arguing from a different assumption about what the rules were.
- Requested maintenance and repair records from both Taras and the estate's files. We asked Taras directly, and searched through Oksana's mother's own paperwork, for any record of roof maintenance, inspections, or prior repairs, since the deferred-maintenance question could shift part of the cost onto ordinary upkeep rather than treating the full amount as a clean capital repair.
- Found the deciding evidence in an old email, while searching for something unrelated. While looking through Oksana's mother's email account for an unrelated tax document, Oksana found a message her mother had sent to her financial advisor about two years before she died, laying out in her own words how she wanted the home's expenses handled after her death: routine costs and insurance to Taras, and any major repair over a modest threshold to be shared roughly equally between Taras and the estate. It had never become part of the will, but it was a clear, contemporaneous statement of her actual intentions, written for her own planning purposes rather than for this dispute.
- Obtained a second, independent roofing assessment. To rule out the deferred-maintenance question raised by the missing repair history, we arranged for an independent roofing inspector to assess whether the roof's condition reflected ordinary end-of-life wear or a pattern of neglect, and the inspector's report confirmed the roof had simply reached the end of a normal lifespan, with no evidence of deferred maintenance contributing to the need for replacement.
- Presented both pieces of evidence to Taras and his lawyer together. We shared the email and the inspection report as the basis for a proposed cost split, framing the email not as a binding instruction, since it was never incorporated into the will, but as strong evidence of what Oksana's mother had actually intended, which carried real weight in showing what a fair outcome looked like even without being legally decisive.
- Negotiated and documented a specific cost-sharing agreement. Taras's lawyer agreed the email reflected genuine intent consistent with the general legal default, and the parties settled on an even split of the roof replacement cost between Taras personally and the estate, with the estate's portion paid from funds set aside for major property expenses rather than distributed early to the beneficiaries.
- Put a written agreement in place covering future expenses, not just the roof. Rather than resolving only the immediate dispute, we drafted a short signed agreement between Taras and the estate setting out, going forward, which categories of expense he would bear personally and which would fall to the estate, closely tracking the framework in the mother's email, so a future repair would not require renegotiating the same questions from scratch.
The outcome
The roof was replaced with the cost split evenly, roughly $21,000 from Taras and $21,000 from the estate, a division both sides accepted as fair once the mother's own words and an independent inspection had removed most of the guesswork. The dispute, which had begun to strain a relationship that had been easy for over a decade, resolved within about two months of Oksana's first call, well before the leaks caused further damage to the home's interior. Had it dragged on longer, the estate risked either a damaged asset that would eventually pass to Oksana and Piotr, or a formal dispute that would have cost far more than the $21,000 in question to argue through.
The written agreement covering future expenses turned out to matter beyond the roof itself. Within the following year, a furnace replacement and a smaller plumbing repair both came up, and both were handled without any renewed dispute, simply by applying the categories the agreement had already set out. What had been a source of real tension became, after the first resolution, a routine administrative matter, with Taras and Oksana emailing a brief confirmation of each expense's category rather than negotiating from scratch each time.
Oksana said afterward that finding her mother's email had changed the entire tone of the negotiation, not because it was legally binding, but because it let everyone stop guessing at what her mother would have wanted and start from what she had actually written down. The estate remains on track to pass to Oksana and Piotr once Taras's life estate eventually ends, with a clear, working framework now in place for whatever comes up between now and then, something the original will, thorough as it was about who would inherit, had never actually provided.
What you can learn from this
- If a will creates a life estate, address who pays for taxes, insurance, routine maintenance and major repairs explicitly. Without instructions, Ontario law fills the gap with general default rules, but applying them to a specific expense can still produce real disagreement.
- The general default divides costs by type: a life tenant typically bears ordinary, recurring costs of occupying a property, while major structural repairs and capital improvements are more commonly shared with or borne by the remainder beneficiaries, since they protect an asset those beneficiaries will eventually own outright.
- Emails, notes, and informal records written during someone's lifetime, for their own purposes rather than for a later dispute, can carry real weight in resolving a disagreement, even when they were never turned into a formal legal document.
- An independent, professional assessment of a disputed repair, such as an inspection ruling out deferred maintenance, can resolve factual disputes that would otherwise turn a straightforward legal question into a drawn-out argument about blame.
- Once a cost dispute involving a life estate is resolved, put a written agreement in place covering future expenses of the same kind. It prevents the next repair, and the one after that, from reopening the same argument from the beginning.
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