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Can Support Arrears Be Reduced or Forgiven in Manitoba?

See when support arrears can be reduced or cancelled in Manitoba, why the Maintenance Enforcement Program cannot wipe them out, and who decides.

Family Law5 min readTSLBy the Treadstone Law Team · ManitobaUpdated November 6, 2026
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Key takeaways
  • Cancelling arrears or reducing payments generally needs a variation application to a judge, with notice to the recipient, though in adult-child cases an approved form agreed by both parties can change the enforced amount.
  • The Maintenance Enforcement Program cannot change an order's payment terms.
  • MEP can suspend enforcement on a payor's written request, but that is not the same as cancelling the debt.

Falling behind on support can happen quickly after a job loss or illness, and the total can grow faster than you expect. If you are the payer, you may wonder whether arrears can ever be reduced. If you are the recipient and someone has asked you to settle, you need to know what that really means.

This article explains who has the power to change arrears in Manitoba, what a payer must be ready to show, and why the Maintenance Enforcement Program (MEP) cannot simply wipe them out.

This article covers the law of Manitoba.

Who can change arrears: a judge, not MEP

MEP receives and monitors payments and acts on arrears. It cannot guarantee payment or change an order's payment terms. Cancelling arrears or reducing payments generally needs a variation application to a judge, with notice to the recipient. The exception is adult-child cases, where a child status review can be requested and, if both parties agree, an approved form can change the enforced amount.

This is why an informal promise between the two of you does not change what is on the file. Changes to the enforced amount go through a judge or, in adult-child cases, through an approved form that both parties agree to.

Manitoba's Family Maintenance Act was repealed on July 1, 2023 and replaced by The Family Law Act and The Family Support Enforcement Act, and orders made under the old Act stay in force. If your order is older, it may still be the one being enforced today.

Pausing enforcement is different from forgiving debt

MEP can administratively suspend enforcement in whole or part on the payor's written request. That can ease pressure, but a payor who wants arrears cancelled or payments lowered must still apply to a judge for a variation.

OptionWho decidesEffect
Written request to suspend enforcementMEPEnforcement can be suspended in whole or part
Variation applicationA judgeCan cancel arrears or reduce payments, with notice to the recipient
Child status review (adult-child cases)Both parties agree on an approved formCan change the enforced amount

How MEP collects while arrears stand

MEP first works with the payor to get voluntary payment. If payments are not received as required, enforcement action could be taken, and the director chooses which action fits each case. The tools include:

A support deduction notice can be sent to an employer, who must complete the response form, remit the amounts to the director and give the payor a copy within seven days after service, without charging a fee. The Family Support Enforcement Act exempts $250 each month (or any greater amount prescribed) of wages and pension benefits from a notice.

Changing jobs does not necessarily end this. The employer must notify the director if it stops employing the payor, and a notice can be served on a new employer or another source of income. A payor without an employer can still be reached, because a notice can reach almost any income or money asset, and a notice to a bank or credit union may freeze the account.

What a payer should be ready to show

At a court enforcement hearing, the payor must show they did not wilfully fail to pay. The court may order arrears paid in full or by instalments, fine up to $10,000, and/or jail up to 200 days, and fines or jail do not erase the arrears.

For spousal support under The Family Law Act, an order may be varied, suspended or terminated on a change in circumstances. The detailed test a judge applies to cancel past arrears depends on the order and the facts, and a lawyer can explain how it applies to you.

Family cases in the Court of King's Bench, Family Division, generally involve filing the court document, serving the other party and completing prerequisites such as financial statements. Exactly which steps apply to a variation depends on your case, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer.

If you are the recipient and are asked to settle

You can talk about a compromise, but a private deal does not change the order or MEP's file. A judge can cancel or reduce arrears on a variation application, with notice to you, and in adult-child cases an approved form that both parties agree to can change the enforced amount. Before agreeing to accept less, get legal advice, because what you agree to may be hard to undo.

You also cannot rely on MEP to disclose the payer's address, phone number or employment details. If the payer is working, MEP's tools include a support deduction notice, which binds wages that are or become due.

Enrolling in MEP is optional unless you receive social assistance and assigned payments to it, and recipients on social assistance cannot opt out. If you are not in MEP, a lawyer can explain private enforcement, which is more limited.

What to do next

Contact MEP at 204-945-7133 or 1-866-479-2717 about your balance and enforcement, or by email at ManitobaMEPInquiries@gov.mb.ca with your full name and file number.

Frequently asked questions

Can MEP forgive my arrears?

No. MEP cannot change an order's payment terms. Cancelling arrears or reducing payments generally needs a variation application to a judge.

Will going to jail or paying a fine clear what I owe?

No. A court may fine up to $10,000 and/or order jail up to 200 days, but fines or jail do not erase the arrears.

Can I ask MEP to stop enforcing while I sort things out?

A payor can make a written request, and MEP can suspend enforcement in whole or part. The arrears remain unless a judge cancels them.

What if the child is now an adult?

A payor can request a child status review, and if both parties agree, an approved form can change the enforced amount.

Sources

Links go to official government, court and regulator pages. The law changes — confirm you are reading the current version.

This article is general information, not legal advice. Reading it does not create a lawyer-client relationship. Manitoba laws, tax rates, and government programs change, and how the law applies depends on your specific facts. For advice about your situation, speak with a lawyer who practises in Manitoba. Reach us at 1-844-900-1070 or send our Team a message.

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