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Lost Your Job While Paying Spousal Support in Ontario? Next Steps

Lost your job while paying spousal support in Ontario? Learn why you shouldn't just stop paying, how to ask a court to reduce it, and what arrears mean.

Family Law5 min readTSLBy the Treadstone Law Team · OntarioUpdated November 6, 2026
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Key takeaways
  • Only a court can change a support order, so cutting or stopping payments on your own is risky.
  • Under the Divorce Act, a court must be satisfied that circumstances have changed before varying spousal support, and it can vary an order for the past or the future.
  • The Family Responsibility Office has wide enforcement tools if payments are missed, and it does not pay the recipient in your place.

Losing your job is stressful enough without a spousal support order still coming out of your account each month. It is natural to wonder whether you can pause payments until you are back on your feet.

This article explains, in general terms, how Ontario handles a payer's drop in income: what to do first, how a court looks at the change, how to ask for a reduction, and what can happen to unpaid amounts in the meantime. Every situation turns on its own facts, so treat this as a map, not advice.

Why you should not simply stop paying

The Family Responsibility Office (FRO) collects and passes on support, but it cannot change what an order says. Only a court can change an order, through a motion to change. When a court orders spousal support in Ontario, the order is automatically filed with FRO, which collects payments from the payer and sends them to the recipient.

If payments stop, FRO has a long list of enforcement tools. These include:

A separation agreement is treated differently. FRO does not receive agreements automatically; the agreement must be filed with a court and then registered with FRO before FRO can enforce it. Even so, what your agreement says still matters, so check it before assuming anything.

What a court looks at when your income drops

Under the Divorce Act, a court can vary, rescind or suspend a spousal support order, retroactively or prospectively, on the application of either former spouse. Before it does, it must be satisfied that either former spouse's circumstances have changed since the order or the last variation, and it must take that change into account. How this works for an order made under another law, such as for unmarried couples, depends on your situation, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer.

How you lost the income often matters. If a spouse is not working but should be, a court can readily impute minimum-wage income, and imputing more than that requires evidence. Section 19 of the Federal Child Support Guidelines is often the basis for imputing income. In plain words, a judge may ask whether the drop in income is real and unavoidable, or whether you could reasonably be earning more.

SituationHow it may be viewed
Laid off, actively looking for workUnder the Divorce Act, a court must be satisfied that circumstances have changed before varying an order; how a layoff is weighed depends on the facts
Not working when you should beA court can readily impute minimum-wage income; imputing more requires evidence
Early retirementClosely examined; if voluntary and not necessary or reasonable, support may stay unchanged
Order for a set period or until an eventSupport that has ended generally cannot be resumed unless strict conditions are met

The Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines are not law, but judges often base decisions on them. On a variation they should be used with considerable caution where complex entitlement issues arise.

How to ask for a reduction

The usual route is a motion to change. After it is issued, you must serve the other spouse within 30 days and file an Affidavit of Service (Form 6B). The other spouse then has 30 days to respond, or 60 days if they live outside Canada or the United States.

Some orders and agreements contain a review clause. A review is different from a variation: a variation requires a material change in circumstances, while a review is more like an initial application, and the clause should limit what is reviewed. Reading the exact wording of your order or agreement is a sensible first step.

What happens to arrears while you wait

Under the Divorce Act, a court can vary support retroactively as well as prospectively, so a change is not necessarily limited to the date you apply. Whether a court will reach back, and how far, depends on your situation and on which law your order was made under, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer. Do not assume that a reduction will cover a period in which you paid nothing.

Meanwhile, unpaid support can be collected. FRO can take up to 100% of arrears from an account in your sole name, but from a joint account no more than 50%, and the money is held for 30 days in case a co-holder disputes it. FRO can also report a payer to a professional organization after three months without payment.

What to do next

Frequently asked questions

Can I stop paying spousal support if I lose my job?

Not on your own. FRO cannot change support terms, and only a court can change an order through a motion to change. Missed payments can trigger FRO enforcement.

Will a court automatically lower my support after a layoff?

No. The court must be satisfied that circumstances have changed, and it takes that change into account. If it finds you are not working when you should be, it can impute income to you.

Can a reduction apply to payments I already missed?

Under the Divorce Act, a court can vary an order retroactively or prospectively. Whether it does so in your case, and how this works for an order made under another law, depends on the facts, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer.

How long do I have to respond if my ex brings the motion?

The other spouse has 30 days to respond after being served, or 60 days if they live outside Canada or the United States. Respond within that time rather than ignoring the papers.

Sources

Links go to official government, court and regulator pages. The law changes — confirm you are reading the current version.

This article is general information, not legal advice. Reading it does not create a lawyer-client relationship. Ontario laws, tax rates, and government programs change, and how the law applies depends on your specific facts. For advice about your situation, speak with a licensed Ontario lawyer. Treadstone Law is licensed by the Law Society of Ontario — reach us at 1-844-900-1070 or start a file online.

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