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What Is the Difference Between a Parenting Order and a Parenting Agreement in Ontario?

TSL Written by the Treadstone Law Team· Updated November 1, 2026

A parenting order is a legal order that sets out decision-making responsibility or parenting time, and the court can enforce it. An informal parenting plan, by contrast, can be difficult to enforce.

You can make a plan stronger by including it in a separation agreement or in a court order. Parents who agree during a case can ask a judge to make an order on consent. If a parenting order is not followed without good reason, the court can act against the person who did not comply, including a fine or jail.

Parents who were never married, or who are not divorcing, cannot get a Divorce Act order and need a parenting order under Ontario's Children's Law Reform Act. Changing the arrangement works differently too: parents can update an agreement by agreeing to the change, but a court order can only be changed by a new decision from the court. If you expect disagreement or have safety concerns, an order may suit you better, but a lawyer can help you decide before you sign.

Key takeaways

  • An informal parenting plan can be difficult to enforce, while a parenting order is a legal order the court can enforce.
  • You can put a plan into a separation agreement or a court order to make it easier to enforce.
  • Parents can update an agreement by agreeing to the change, but a court order can only be changed by a new decision from the court.
  • Parents who were never married, or who are not divorcing, cannot get a Divorce Act order and need a parenting order under Ontario's Children's Law Reform Act.
This is general information, not legal advice. It doesn’t create a lawyer–client relationship, and the rules can change. For advice on your situation, a Treadstone family lawyer can help.

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