- In a bankruptcy, reasonable funeral and testamentary expenses of a deceased bankrupt are paid first, ahead of other costs.
- Funeral costs cannot be deducted when calculating estate value for Estate Administration Tax.
- Keep receipts and talk to the executor before you pay, since whether and how you are repaid depends on the estate and the executor.
A funeral usually has to be arranged within days, but the deceased person's bank accounts may be unavailable for weeks or longer. Many families end up paying from their own pockets and wondering whether they will get the money back.
This article explains how people usually handle funeral costs, what to ask the bank, how funeral expenses rank against other debts, and how to protect yourself if you pay first.
Why funeral costs and frozen accounts collide
The executor is the person who takes over the legal role, and authority previously given to someone else to deal with Service Canada, for example, ends at death. How a bank handles the deceased's accounts depends on the bank, so ask what paperwork it needs.
Whether a bank will release money directly to a funeral home, or to a family member who has the invoice, depends on that bank's policy and on the type of account. Ask the bank what it allows, and ask for the answer in writing. Whether it is appropriate to use the deceased's debit card or online banking depends on your situation, so it is worth confirming with the bank and a lawyer first.
Paying first and getting reimbursed
The executor's job includes settling debts before distributing what remains to beneficiaries. Whether and how you are repaid for a funeral you paid yourself depends on the estate and the executor, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer.
There is no need to rush into unusual steps. What matters is a clear record. The more clearly you show what you paid and why, the easier reimbursement is.
- Get an itemized invoice from the funeral home in the name of the estate or deceased, if they will do so.
- Keep proof of payment, such as card statements or receipts.
- Tell the executor what you paid before you pay, if possible.
- Before taking money from the deceased's accounts to repay yourself, confirm with the executor and a lawyer whether you are allowed to.
- Keep costs reasonable and consistent with the person's wishes and the estate's size.
Where funeral costs rank against other debts
If the estate may not cover all debts, the order matters. In a bankruptcy of a deceased person, the Bankruptcy and Insolvency Act sets a priority: the reasonable funeral and testamentary expenses incurred by the legal representative are paid first, ahead of administration costs, the Superintendent's levy and unpaid wages. The legal personal representative or heirs are entitled to any surplus only after creditors are paid in full.
That rule applies to a bankruptcy. How funeral expenses rank in an insolvent estate that is not in bankruptcy is something to confirm with a lawyer before paying out any money.
| Question | General answer |
|---|---|
| Can funeral costs reduce estate value for Estate Administration Tax? | No, they cannot be deducted |
| Do funeral costs rank high if a deceased person is bankrupt? | Yes, reasonable funeral and testamentary expenses are paid first |
| Do beneficiaries get paid before debts? | No, debts are settled before distribution |
Money that may not be available for the funeral
Some assets pass outside the estate, so the executor cannot use them to repay you. These include insurance paid to a named beneficiary, jointly owned assets passing to the surviving owner, and RRSPs, RRIFs, TFSAs and registered pension plans with a beneficiary designation. Whether someone who receives those funds directly should help with funeral costs is a family conversation, and a lawyer can confirm where you stand.
Life insurance payable to the estate is part of the estate. If you are the beneficiary of a policy, you can contact the insurer or agent to make a claim, and the OmbudService for Life and Health Insurance can help locate a deceased person's policy. Be aware that an estate-named benefit may be claimed by creditors.
Payments from government benefits come with their own limits. The estate is entitled to the CPP and OAS payments for the month of death, but payments after that month must be returned. Do not count on later deposits to cover the funeral.
What to do next
- Confirm who the executor is, or whether one still needs to be appointed.
- Ask the funeral home for an itemized written estimate before you commit.
- Ask the bank whether it will pay the funeral home directly, and what it needs.
- Keep every invoice and proof of payment in one folder.
- Tell the executor, in writing, what you paid and ask how it will be reimbursed.
- Speak with a lawyer if the estate may be insolvent, if family disagree on costs, or if there is no will.
If there is no will or no named executor, the rules that apply come from provincial law, and a lawyer can explain who may apply to act.
Frequently asked questions
Will the bank pay the funeral home directly?
It depends on the bank and the account. Ask the bank what it allows and what paperwork it needs, and ask for the policy in writing.
Can I get reimbursed if I pay the funeral myself?
The executor's job includes settling debts before distributing what remains to beneficiaries. Whether you are repaid depends on the estate, so keep receipts, tell the executor early, and confirm with a lawyer if you are unsure.
Do funeral costs lower estate administration tax?
No. Funeral costs cannot be deducted when calculating estate value for the tax.
Are funeral costs paid before other debts?
In the bankruptcy of a deceased person, reasonable funeral and testamentary expenses are paid first. Outside bankruptcy, the ranking depends on the facts, so check with a lawyer.
Sources
- Ontario.ca – Estate administration tax — ontario.ca
- Canada.ca – Cancel CPP and OAS benefits after a death — canada.ca
- Canada.ca – Represent someone who died — canada.ca
- Justice Laws – Bankruptcy and Insolvency Act, s. 136 — Justice Laws (federal)
- Canada.ca (FCAC) – Life insurance — canada.ca
- FSRA – Life and health insurance — fsrao.ca
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