- A joint borrower on a mortgage becomes equally responsible for repaying the unpaid balance, whatever happens to the relationship.
- Unmarried partners are not spouses for property equalization, so there is no automatic split of the home.
- If co-owners cannot agree to sell or buy out, a court application for partition is one route.
- Who is on the loan and who is on title are separate questions, so check both before you decide what to do.
Many common-law couples sign a mortgage together. Others have one partner on the loan and the other on title, or the reverse. It often feels like a practical step at the time, but if the relationship ends, the lender's paperwork and the land registry records matter as much as who paid what.
This article explains the risks of being a co-signer or joint borrower, how title and the mortgage can differ, and the usual ways people exit. It is general information. The right path depends on your documents, so a lawyer can confirm it for your situation.
What co-signing means to the lender
When you are a joint borrower or co-signer on a mortgage, loan or line of credit, you become equally responsible for repaying the unpaid balance. That is a promise to the lender, not to your partner. How a breakup or a private arrangement between the two of you affects the loan depends on your lender's terms, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer.
Joint borrowers are also each entitled to the same statements as the other borrowers, at least with federally regulated institutions. If you are unsure of the balance or whether payments are current, ask the lender for the statements before you make any decisions.
Loan and title are two different questions
The mortgage says who owes the lender. The title says who owns the land. They do not always match. You might be on the loan to help the household qualify but not on title, or on title but not on the loan. Each combination creates different risks.
| Your position | Main risk if you split |
|---|---|
| On the mortgage and on title | You owe the lender and also co-own the home, so you need a plan for both the debt and the ownership. |
| On the mortgage but not on title | You can be responsible for the unpaid balance while having no registered ownership. Any claim to a share may depend on your contributions. |
| On title but not on the mortgage | You own part of the home but did not borrow. How the loan is handled on a sale or buyout depends on the lender's terms, which vary. |
If land is conveyed to two or more people, the law treats them as tenants in common unless the document shows otherwise, even if they are spouses. With joint tenancy the surviving co-owners inherit a deceased owner's share, while with tenants in common the share becomes part of the deceased owner's estate. Check your title to see which one you have.
There is no automatic split for unmarried partners
For property equalization, a spouse means someone who is married, so unmarried partners are not spouses for that purpose. Common-law couples are not legally required to split property acquired while living together, and furniture and household items belong to the person who bought them.
That does not mean the partner who is not on title has nothing. If you contributed to property your partner owns, you may have a right to part of it, but unless your partner agrees to pay you back you may have to go to court to recover your contribution. Unmarried partners can claim unjust enrichment, and where there is a joint family venture the remedy can be a proportionate share of the wealth accumulated, linked to contributions. There is no presumption of a joint family venture, and intent and conduct weigh heavily.
Time limits matter. The basic limitation period is two years from the day a claim was discovered, with a 15-year ultimate limit. That general rule applies to claims such as unjust enrichment between former partners. When the clock starts in your situation depends on the facts, so get advice early.
Ways to exit a shared mortgage
- Agree to sell the home, pay off the mortgage from the proceeds and divide what is left by agreement.
- One partner buys out the other and takes over the borrowing. Lender approval and release terms vary, so ask the lender what it requires.
- Ask a court for partition if you cannot agree. Any person interested in land may bring an action or application for partition, and the court may order a sale instead if that is more advantageous to the parties.
- Settle the money questions in a written agreement, ideally before anyone signs a transfer or a new mortgage.
Be careful about taking out new borrowing on the home without the other owner. Registering a mortgage by fewer than all joint tenants does not automatically sever the joint tenancy, although severance can occur through the lender's power of sale or foreclosure. That can leave results you did not intend.
Land transfer tax can also come into play on a transfer between partners. Transfers between spouses or former spouses can be exempt in certain cases, such as a transfer under a court order or one that complies with a written separation agreement. For this purpose, spouse uses the Family Law Act support meaning, which includes some unmarried couples. Taking over the mortgage counts as consideration. Ask a lawyer whether an exemption fits your facts.
Protecting yourself before and after a split
Common-law couples can sign a cohabitation agreement setting terms if the relationship ends, including ownership and division of property and support. It must be in writing, signed and witnessed to be enforceable. Each partner should use a different lawyer and exchange financial information. A court can set aside a contract if a party failed to disclose significant assets or debts, or did not understand its consequences.
What to do next
- Get a copy of your mortgage documents and the latest lender statement.
- Search title to confirm who is on it and whether you hold as joint tenants or tenants in common.
- Gather records of who paid the down payment, mortgage, taxes and repairs.
- Do not sign new borrowing, a transfer or a release until you understand it.
- Note any dates that could matter for time limits and speak to a lawyer early.
Frequently asked questions
If I co-signed but I am not on title, am I still responsible for the mortgage?
A joint borrower or co-signer becomes equally responsible for repaying the unpaid balance. Not being on title does not change that. Whether you have a claim to a share of the home depends on your contributions and the facts.
Can my ex just refuse to sell?
If you are both interested in the land and cannot agree, either of you may bring an action or application for partition, and the court may order a sale instead if that is more advantageous to the parties. A lawyer can explain how that process would work for you.
Do common-law couples automatically split a house equally?
No. Common-law couples are not legally required to split property acquired while living together. A partner may still have an unjust enrichment claim based on contributions.
How long do I have to bring a claim?
For claims such as unjust enrichment, the basic period is two years from the day the claim was discovered, with a 15-year ultimate limit. When discovery happens depends on the facts, so ask a lawyer promptly.
Sources
- Family Law Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. F.3 (e-Laws) — Ontario e-Laws
- Limitations Act, 2002, S.O. 2002, c. 24, Sched. B (e-Laws) — Ontario e-Laws
- Ontario.ca – Dividing property when a marriage or common law relationship ends — ontario.ca
- Conveyancing and Law of Property Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. C.34 (e-Laws) — Ontario e-Laws
- Ontario.ca – Co-ownership arrangements — ontario.ca
- Ontario Land Registration Bulletin 96005 – Joint Tenancy — ontario.ca
- Partition Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. P.4 (e-Laws) — Ontario e-Laws
- FCAC – Disclosure of information to joint borrowers — canada.ca
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