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How to Apply for a Parenting Order in Alberta Step by Step

A step-by-step guide to applying for a parenting order in Alberta: which law applies, required courses, the forms, where to file and what happens next.

Family Law4 min readTSLBy the Treadstone Law Team · AlbertaUpdated November 1, 2026
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Key takeaways
  • You can apply for a Family Law Act parenting order if no divorce action has been started and the child lives in Alberta.
  • Parenting After Separation is required before filing in the Court of King's Bench, and extra steps apply in Edmonton, Calgary, Red Deer and Grande Prairie.
  • The other side generally has 20 days to respond if served in Alberta.

Going to court about parenting can feel like a maze of forms and requirements. The good news is that the steps follow a fairly clear order: decide which law applies, complete required courses, file the right forms and serve the other side.

This article lays out those steps for Alberta. Some details, such as which court level suits your situation, depend on the facts, so a lawyer can confirm them for you.

This article covers the law of Alberta.

Step 1: Work out which law applies

You can apply for a Family Law Act parenting order if no divorce action has been started by you or the other guardian and the child lives in Alberta. The Family Law Act cannot be used for a matter already dealt with by an order or judgment under the Divorce Act, and where a divorce action has started, parenting is dealt with under the Divorce Act instead.

If you are not a guardian, such as a grandparent or non-guardian parent, you apply for a Contact Order instead. Guardianship is worth confirming first, since it decides which application fits.

Step 2: Complete the required courses and steps

The Parenting After Separation course is required before filing a divorce or Family Law Act application in the Court of King's Bench, and a judge can also direct you to take it. You register online through the Resolution Services Learning Centre. The Parenting After Separation for Indigenous Families course complements but does not satisfy this requirement.

In Greater Edmonton, Calgary, Red Deer and Grande Prairie, the Family Justice Strategy adds requirements before filing a family application.

If you cannot complete a mandatory requirement, you file a Request to Waive/Defer Mandatory Requirements form. Reasons include family violence concerns, technological or language barriers, and inability to locate the other party.

Step 3: Choose the forms and the court

The forms are Claim – Family Law Act, Affidavit of Service – Applicant, and either Statement – Parenting, to share responsibilities and decision-making, or Statement – Parenting (Sole Guardian).

File at the same court and location where you have already been to court with the other party or started an action. Otherwise, you can file at any court in Alberta. Which court level is the better fit for your case, and whether other local protocols apply, is something to confirm with a lawyer or the court clerk.

Step 4: Serve the other side and what happens next

After filing, the other party must be served, and you complete the Affidavit of Service – Applicant. Unless the applicant agrees to more time, the person responding has 20 days if served in Alberta, 1 month if served elsewhere in Canada, or 2 months if served outside Canada. They use the Response – Family Law Act form (CTS3460). If they disagree with your claim, they file a Reply Statement and serve you before the court date.

If guardians cannot agree, a judge decides based on the child's best interests, aiming to protect the child's physical, psychological and emotional safety. The order can divide parenting time, assign specific responsibilities or set a process for resolving future disputes.

What to do next

Frequently asked questions

Do I need a lawyer to apply for a parenting order?

The process has forms you can complete yourself, and unrepresented parties with dependent children in the Family Justice Strategy cities meet with a family court counsellor. A lawyer can still help with strategy, drafting and any urgent safety concerns.

Can I apply if we already agree on a plan?

A parenting agreement is a private arrangement that does not have to be changed in court, while a consent order is a court order both parties agree to. Whether your agreed plan is best left as a private agreement or turned into an order depends on your situation, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer. If you are applying under the Divorce Act, the court must include a submitted parenting plan unless it is not in the child's best interests.

What if I cannot find the other parent to serve them?

Not being able to locate the other party is a reason you can give when asking to waive or defer a mandatory requirement, such as the course or the ADR step, using the Request to Waive/Defer Mandatory Requirements form. That form deals with those requirements, not with serving the other parent. How to serve someone you cannot find depends on your situation, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer or the court clerk.

How do I change a parenting order later?

To vary a Family Law Act parenting order made in Alberta, you use Claim – Family Law Act, Statement – Vary Parenting and Affidavit of Service – Applicant.

Sources

Links go to official government, court and regulator pages. The law changes — confirm you are reading the current version.

This article is general information, not legal advice. Reading it does not create a lawyer-client relationship. Alberta laws, tax rates, and government programs change, and how the law applies depends on your specific facts. For advice about your situation, speak with a lawyer who practises in Alberta. Reach us at 1-844-900-1070 or send our Team a message.

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