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Are Extracurricular Activities Shared Under Child Support in Ontario?

Paying for hockey, music lessons or camps? Learn when the other parent must contribute, how 'extraordinary' is judged and how the costs are split in Ontario.

Family Law4 min readTSLBy the Treadstone Law Team · OntarioUpdated October 28, 2026
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Key takeaways
  • Extracurricular costs can be added on top of basic child support only if they are 'extraordinary'.
  • An expense is extraordinary if it is more than the parent asking can reasonably cover, or if the court finds it so after looking at the activity, the child's talents and the overall cost.
  • The usual split is in proportion to each parent's income, after any contribution from the child.
  • Keep receipts, because they are needed to claim special expenses through the Family Responsibility Office.

Hockey registration, music lessons, summer camps and tournament travel add up quickly. If you are the parent paying for them, it is natural to ask whether the other parent has to share the cost, or whether it is all covered by the basic monthly support amount.

The answer is not automatic. Child support law treats only some activity costs as shareable. This article explains the test the Guidelines use, how the split works, and what to gather before you raise it.

When can the other parent be asked to contribute?

On either parent's request, a court can provide for an amount to cover all or part of certain listed special or extraordinary expenses. Extraordinary expenses for extracurricular activities are one of the listed categories. This amount is in addition to the basic table amount, not a replacement for it.

The key word is 'extraordinary'. An activity does not qualify only because you pay for it and your child enjoys it. The Guidelines set out a specific test, covered next.

How 'extraordinary' is judged

An expense is extraordinary if it is more than the parent asking for the amount can reasonably cover. That test looks at the requesting parent's own finances, so the same activity can be extraordinary for one family and not for another.

Even if the cost is affordable, the court may still find it extraordinary. It looks at the nature and number of the activities, the child's talents and special needs, and the overall cost. Justice Canada's guide describes the same two routes.

QuestionWhat the Guidelines look at
Can the requesting parent reasonably cover it?If the cost is more than that parent can reasonably cover, it is extraordinary.
If it is affordable, is it still extraordinary?The court considers the nature and number of activities, the child's talents and special needs, and the overall cost.
Who is asking?Either parent can ask the court to provide for the amount.

How this applies to a particular activity depends on your situation, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer.

How the cost is shared

Special or extraordinary expenses are shared by the parents in proportion to their incomes, after deducting any contribution from the child.

Justice Canada gives an example. A parent earning $80,000 of a combined $155,000 paid about $516.13 per month toward a $12,000 yearly special expense, in addition to a $765 basic table amount. That shows the method: work out each parent's share of the combined income, then apply that share to the expense.

The court must also take into account any subsidies, benefits or income tax deductions or credits relating to the expense. If an activity attracts a tax credit or a subsidy, the net cost may be lower than the sticker price. An accountant can confirm which credits apply to your situation.

How activities compare with other special expenses

Extracurricular costs sit in the same section as several other categories. Knowing the others helps you see what belongs where.

Type of expenseWhat the Guidelines say
Child careChild care expenses incurred because of employment, illness, disability or education.
HealthHealth-related expenses above insurance reimbursement by at least $100 annually, including orthodontic treatment.
SchoolExtraordinary expenses for primary or secondary school education.
ExtracurricularExtraordinary expenses for extracurricular activities.

If your child's costs fall into more than one category, each is looked at under its own wording.

What to do next

Start with a clear picture of what you are paying and why it matters for your child. Then raise it with the other parent, ideally in writing. Only a court can change the amount of support, and the Family Responsibility Office says it cannot change what a payor pays. If you cannot agree, the next step is usually to speak with a lawyer about asking the court.

Frequently asked questions

Is hockey or music automatically shared between parents?

No. Only extraordinary extracurricular expenses can be shared, and a cost is extraordinary if it exceeds what the requesting parent can reasonably cover, or if the court finds it so after looking at the activity and the child's talents and needs. Whether your child's activity qualifies depends on the facts.

How is the split between parents decided?

The usual method is in proportion to each parent's income, after deducting any contribution from the child. Justice Canada's example had a parent with $80,000 of a combined $155,000 paying about $516.13 per month toward a $12,000 yearly expense.

Can I claim these costs through the Family Responsibility Office?

Receipts are required to claim special expenses through the Family Responsibility Office, and Ontario.ca lists club and sports fees among the examples. Whether your particular expense is covered depends on your order or agreement, so check your documents and confirm with a lawyer.

Can the other parent simply stop paying their share?

Only a court can change the amount of support. If you think an amount should change, the payor should keep paying until the Family Responsibility Office says in writing that they can stop. A lawyer can explain your options for asking the court.

Sources

Links go to official government, court and regulator pages. The law changes — confirm you are reading the current version.

This article is general information, not legal advice. Reading it does not create a lawyer-client relationship. Ontario laws, tax rates, and government programs change, and how the law applies depends on your specific facts. For advice about your situation, speak with a licensed Ontario lawyer. Treadstone Law is licensed by the Law Society of Ontario — reach us at 1-844-900-1070 or start a file online.

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