- Many couples who agree on everything can apply together for a divorce order using the province's Online Divorce Assistant.
- Disagreements, serving a spouse who is hard to find, or children's arrangements are where handling a divorce alone carries the most risk.
- Only the Supreme Court of British Columbia can grant a divorce, and it takes effect on the thirty-first day after the judgment.
If your marriage has ended, you may be wondering whether you have to hire a lawyer just to get the divorce itself. Many people in British Columbia handle the paperwork on their own, and the province offers tools and support for them.
Whether that makes sense for you depends on how much you and your spouse agree on, whether your spouse can be found and served, and whether children or property are involved. This article walks through when a do-it-yourself divorce tends to work and where the risks are.
This article covers the law of British Columbia.
What a divorce actually involves
Only the Supreme Court of British Columbia can grant a divorce in the province. Separating is different. You can separate without any court step, but you must have a divorce order if you want to remarry.
The court grants a divorce if the marriage has broken down and the other legal requirements are met. Before it does so, it must be satisfied that reasonable arrangements have been made for any children of the marriage, including child support.
When handling it yourself is more realistic
The simplest route is a joint application, made by both spouses together. This removes the need to serve the other spouse, and it is also called an uncontested or desk-order divorce.
The province's Online Divorce Assistant is designed for joint divorces where both spouses agree on all family law issues that affect the family and only need a divorce order.
A divorce applied for by one spouse can also proceed as uncontested if the other spouse is served and does not respond. In that situation, the evidence in an undefended case where divorce is sought may be given by affidavit unless the court orders otherwise, so no hearing is usually needed.
Where the risks are higher
A divorce is rarely complicated on paper, but mistakes can delay it or leave you with an order that does not match your situation. These are the situations where many people choose to get legal advice.
| Situation | Why it adds risk |
|---|---|
| You and your spouse disagree on parenting, support or property | The Online Divorce Assistant does not fit these cases, and they need the court's other forms or a sole filing. |
| Your spouse cannot be found | Personal service is required unless the court orders otherwise, and substituted service needs a court application. |
| Your spouse lives outside BC | Service outside BC may need the court's leave, depending on the rule that applies. |
| There are children | The court must be satisfied about reasonable arrangements, including child support, before granting the divorce. |
| You want to rely on adultery or cruelty | The conduct must be by the spouse the proceeding is brought against. |
The main steps if you go it alone
A divorce proceeding starts by filing a Notice of Family Claim (Form F3) in the Supreme Court registry, and the filing fee is $200. A person who provides a Form F100 certificate of mediation from a qualified mediator at filing may not need to pay that fee, subject to conditions. If you cannot afford government fees without undue hardship, or you receive benefits under the Employment and Assistance Act, the court may waive them.
After filing, your spouse must be served by personal service unless the court orders otherwise. You cannot serve the papers yourself. The person serving must not be a party and must be at least 19 years of age. Your spouse then has 30 days to file a response.
To finish an undefended case, you file a requisition in Form F35 with a draft order, proof the case is undefended, a registrar's certificate in Form F36 and the filing fee. A desk order divorce also needs the Form F38 affidavit, plus a Child Support Affidavit (Form F37) if there is a child of the marriage or a child support claim. The Form F38 affidavit must generally be sworn within 30 days of filing the application.
Forms change. An amended Form F38 took effect on January 19, 2026, so check that you are using the current version.
What to do next
- Decide whether a joint application is realistic by talking with your spouse about parenting, support and property.
- Check that you or your spouse have lived in BC for at least a year.
- Confirm your separation date, since the court will not grant a divorce on the separation ground until you have been separated for at least one year.
- Use the current forms and ask the registry if you are unsure about a requirement.
- Remember the divorce takes effect on the thirty-first day after the judgment, and you cannot remarry before then.
- If anything is disputed, or service is difficult, speak with a lawyer before you file.
Help is available if you are handling your own divorce, including Family Justice Centres, Justice Access Centres, the Parenting After Separation course, the BC Legal Referral Service and Legal Aid BC.
Frequently asked questions
Can I get a divorce in BC without a lawyer?
Many people do, particularly when both spouses agree and apply together. The province's Online Divorce Assistant is built for joint divorces where both spouses agree on all family law issues. If there are disagreements, it is worth getting advice.
What if my spouse will not sign or take part?
The Online Divorce Assistant does not fit a spouse who will not apply jointly, so you would need the court's other forms or a sole filing. A sole application can still proceed as undefended if your spouse is served and does not respond.
Do I have to go to court for an uncontested divorce?
Not necessarily. In an undefended case where divorce is sought, evidence may be given by affidavit unless the court orders otherwise. In a desk order divorce, a judge reviews your forms and signs the order if satisfied.
When can I remarry after my divorce order?
A divorce takes effect on the thirty-first day after the judgment is rendered. You cannot remarry until that period has passed. The court can shorten it only in special circumstances where the spouses agree not to appeal or any appeal has been abandoned.
Sources
- Province of BC – What do I need to know about getting a divorce? — www2.gov.bc.ca
- Divorce Act, s. 8(2)(b) — Justice Laws (federal)
- Divorce Act, s. 3 — Justice Laws (federal)
- Supreme Court Family Rules, Appendix C, Schedule 1 — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- Supreme Court Family Rules, Rule 20-5 — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- Supreme Court Family Rules, Rule 6-4 — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- Supreme Court Family Rules, Rule 10-10 — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- Supreme Court Family Rules, Form F35 — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
Links go to official government, court and regulator pages. The law changes — confirm you are reading the current version.
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An uncontested divorce with us is from $2,126.88, tax included. Third-party fees are extra.