- For divorce purposes, separation is judged by whether spouses live apart and at least one intends to live separate and apart, not by a registered form.
- Living apart for at least one year is one way to establish that a marriage has broken down.
- Spouses can be separated while still living under the same roof, and a lawyer can explain how courts assess that.
Many people in Prince Edward Island assume that ending a relationship means filing something, or registering a separation date somewhere. It is a reasonable worry, especially if you want to protect your position.
This article explains how the Divorce Act treats separation, what generally decides the date, and why that date can matter later if you divorce.
This article covers the law of Prince Edward Island.
Separation is about how you live, not a form
The Divorce Act does not describe separation as something you apply for. It deals with it as a question of fact. Spouses are deemed to have lived separate and apart for any period during which they lived apart and either of them intended to live separate and apart from the other. The test turns on the intention of at least one spouse.
In practice, this means that the starting point is what has actually changed in your lives and what you intended. The Divorce Act wording on separation refers to living apart and intention, and it does not refer to a registration step. If you are unsure about a particular agreement or document you need for another reason, a lawyer can advise.
What date counts as the separation date
There is no single date stamped by a court. Because the test combines living apart with the intention to live separate and apart, the date is generally the point at which both are present. Because it turns on intention, one spouse can start the separation even if the other does not agree.
- The date you began living apart.
- The date at least one of you decided the relationship was over and acted on that decision.
- Any later events, such as a brief reconciliation attempt, that could affect the count.
If you and your spouse disagree about the date, it is worth keeping notes and records of when things changed, and getting legal advice.
Living under the same roof
Justice Canada's guidance states that couples can be separated while still living under the same roof, and that a lawyer can explain how courts assess it. The Act itself has no same-roof wording; it turns on living apart plus the intention to live separate and apart. If money or space keeps you in one home, how you live day to day may matter, so get advice about your circumstances.
Why the separation date matters
The only ground for divorce is the breakdown of the marriage. One way to establish breakdown is that the spouses have lived separate and apart for at least one year immediately before the divorce is decided and were living separate and apart when the proceeding started. Another is adultery or cruelty making continued cohabitation intolerable.
You do not have to wait a year to file on the separation ground. You can apply while living apart, but the one year must be complete before the divorce is granted. Adultery or cruelty lets a spouse seek divorce without waiting out the one-year separation.
| Event | Effect on separation |
|---|---|
| Getting back together for reconciliation, totalling not more than ninety days | The separation is not interrupted or ended, if reconciliation was the primary purpose |
| A spouse becomes incapable of forming or continuing the intention | Not interrupted merely for that reason, if the court finds the separation would probably have continued |
Justice Canada says you may live together for up to 90 days, before or after filing, to try to reconcile, and the divorce action can continue as if that time had not occurred.
What to do next
If you later decide to divorce, a petition is started under Rule 70 of the Rules of Civil Procedure, using Form 70A. Before then, you can take sensible steps to protect your position.
- Write down the date you began living apart and the date you decided the relationship had ended.
- Keep a record of any periods you lived together again and why.
- Consider agreeing with your spouse on child support, parenting arrangements, spousal support and property, since unresolved issues lead to a longer and costlier court process.
- Talk to a lawyer about your own situation, especially if you are still in the same home.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need to register my separation anywhere in Prince Edward Island?
The Divorce Act's test for separation looks at whether you lived apart and whether at least one of you intended to live separate and apart. It does not describe a registration step. For other documents, such as a written agreement, ask a lawyer.
Can we be separated if we still live in the same house?
Justice Canada's guidance says couples can be separated while living under the same roof. How a court would see your situation depends on the facts, so legal advice is worthwhile.
Does a short reconciliation restart the one-year clock?
Not if you resumed living together for periods totalling not more than ninety days with reconciliation as the primary purpose.
When is a divorce final?
A divorce takes effect on the thirty-first day after the day the judgment granting it is rendered.
Sources
- Divorce Act, s. 8 (Justice Laws) — Justice Laws (federal)
- Justice Canada – How to Apply for a Divorce — justice.gc.ca
- Divorce Act (Justice Laws) — Justice Laws (federal)
- PEI Rules of Civil Procedure, Rule 70 — courts.pe.ca
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