- The Family Law Act's parenting, support and family-safety rules generally apply to both married and unmarried couples.
- Unmarried couples who lived together in a marriage-like relationship for at least two years can divide property, and can opt out by agreement.
- Divorce is for married spouses only, and the 2-year claim limit runs from different dates for married and unmarried spouses.
If you are not married, you may wonder whether you have any claim to the home, the savings or support after a breakup. In British Columbia the answer is often yes, because the law looks at how you lived rather than at a marriage certificate.
There are still differences. This article walks through where unmarried partners are treated the same as married spouses, and where the rules are not identical. A lawyer can confirm how any of this applies to your situation.
This article covers the law of British Columbia.
The general rule: much is the same
The BC government says the Family Law Act may apply whether or not you were married, and that parenting, support and family-safety rules generally apply to both married and unmarried couples. It also says wills, estates and income tax already treat common-law and married families the same.
This was not always so. Before 2013, unmarried couples could not ask a court to divide property under the family property legislation, however long they had lived together. Since the Family Law Act, qualifying common-law couples can.
Under the Family Law Act, a person is a spouse if they are married, or if they have lived with another person in a marriage-like relationship for a continuous period of at least 2 years. There is an exception: outside the property and pension division parts of the Act, a person who has lived in a marriage-like relationship for less than 2 years is still a spouse if they have a child with the other person. The relationship begins on the earlier of the date the couple began living together in a marriage-like relationship and the date of their marriage, and a spouse includes a former spouse.
Property and debt
Property division rules apply to unmarried couples who have lived together in a marriage-like relationship for at least two years. Spouses are generally equally entitled to and responsible for family property and family debt, and on separation each has a right to an undivided half interest in all family property as a tenant in common.
- Family property is property owned by at least one spouse, or in which one has a beneficial interest, on the date of separation.
- Property owned before the relationship, inheritances and gifts from third parties are generally excluded property.
- If you say property is excluded, you must prove it.
- The increase in value of excluded property since the relationship began, or since you acquired it if later, is shared, but the starting value is not.
The Supreme Court may order an unequal division if equal division would be significantly unfair. Couples can also opt out of these rules by agreement.
Spouses may be separated while still living in the same residence, and the court may treat one spouse communicating an intention to separate permanently, or acting on that intention, as evidence of separation. Spouses are not treated as having separated if, within one year after separating, they resume living together primarily to reconcile and live together for periods totalling at least 90 days.
Support, pensions and the home
If a spouse is entitled to spousal support, the other has a duty to provide it. Entitlement is decided after considering the section 161 objectives, and the amount is then set under section 162. The same test applies whether or not you married.
The objectives include recognizing economic advantages or disadvantages from the relationship, apportioning the financial consequences of child care, relieving economic hardship from the breakdown and, as far as practicable, promoting each spouse's economic self-sufficiency within a reasonable period. Amount and duration depend on each spouse's conditions, means, needs and other circumstances, including how long they lived together and the functions each performed.
Pension entitlements are family property, and a spouse's share is determined under Part 6, which is available only to spouses who meet the 2-year test. Couples with a child but under 2 years together can be spouses for support, but not for property or pension division.
The Supreme Court can also order one spouse exclusive occupation of the family residence for a specified period. That order is temporary and does not give a proprietary interest.
Where the rules are not the same
| Topic | Married spouses | Unmarried spouses |
|---|---|---|
| Divorce | Divorce Act applies | No divorce needed; Family Law Act applies |
| 2-year limit for property, pension or support claims | Runs from divorce judgment or nullity order | Runs from the date of separation, and is suspended while the spouses are in family dispute resolution or a prescribed process |
| Short relationships | Married, so a spouse | Spouse only with 2 years together, or with a child for support and parenting |
If a person dies without a will and leaves a spouse but no descendants, the whole intestate estate goes to the spouse. If there are descendants, the spouse's share depends on whether all of them are also the spouse's descendants.
Federal benefits and tax rules may define a partner differently from the Family Law Act, and those definitions can carry their own conditions. Confirm them with a lawyer or accountant before relying on them.
What to do next
- Work out your start-of-cohabitation and separation dates
- List what each of you owned before the relationship, with proof
- Find any written agreement about property or support, since it may affect your rights
- Keep track of the 2-year time limit that applies to you
- Ask a lawyer or accountant about any federal benefit or tax question
Frequently asked questions
Can I claim half the house if we were never married?
If you lived together in a marriage-like relationship for at least two years, property division rules can apply. Spouses are generally equally entitled to family property, but property owned before the relationship is generally excluded. The increase in value of excluded property since the relationship began, or since it was acquired if later, is shared, though the starting value is not. The result depends on the facts, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer.
Can an unmarried partner get spousal support?
Only a spouse can claim it. An unmarried partner is a spouse after 2 years of continuous marriage-like cohabitation, or with less than 2 years if they have a child together. A spouse who is entitled to support is owed it by the other spouse, with entitlement decided under the section 161 objectives and the amount under section 162. There is an exception: a spouse may agree in writing to release the other from spousal support, and where a witnessed written agreement exists, the court may not order support unless that agreement is first set aside, for example for non-disclosure of income, property or debts, or because it is significantly unfair.
Do common-law partners get a divorce?
No. The Divorce Act applies to married spouses, while unmarried spouses resolve property, support and parenting under the Family Law Act.
Can we sign an agreement to avoid these property rules?
Yes. Couples can opt out of the property rules by agreement, and spouses may make agreements dividing property and debt equally or unequally. A court can set aside a witnessed written agreement only on listed grounds, such as failure to disclose significant property or debts.
Sources
- Family Law Act, SBC 2011, c. 25, s. 3 (BC Laws) — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- Family Law Act s. 83 (Part 5) — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- gov.bc.ca – Does the Family Law Act apply to me? — www2.gov.bc.ca
- gov.bc.ca – Common-law property and debt — www2.gov.bc.ca
- Family Law Act s. 198 — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- Family Law Act s. 160 — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- Family Law Act Part 6 (s. 111) — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
- WESA s. 20 — bclaws.gov.bc.ca
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