- A grandparent, a person with a settled intention to treat the child as family, or a person with actual care of the child can apply to court for custody or access.
- The court decides on the child's best interests and must consider any violence by a person toward a spouse, child or household member.
- If the parents' divorce starts under the Divorce Act, a Children's Law Act application is stayed unless the court grants leave.
You may be a grandparent who has lost contact with a grandchild. You may be a step-parent or relative who has been raising a child, or who wants to. Either way, you probably want to know whether the law lets you ask a court for a say.
In Newfoundland and Labrador, a grandparent is among the people the law allows to apply, and the court focuses on the child rather than on the adult's wishes. This article explains who can apply, how the court decides, where the application goes, and what options exist outside court.
This article covers the law of Newfoundland and Labrador.
Who is allowed to apply
Under the Children's Law Act, a parent can apply to a court for an order about custody, access or an aspect of custody. So can certain other people listed in section 69(4) of the Act.
Those other people include the following:
- A grandparent.
- A person with a settled intention to treat the child as a member of their family.
- A person with actual care of the child.
This means a step-parent, aunt, uncle or family friend may qualify, depending on the facts. Being allowed to apply does not mean the application will succeed. It only means the court will hear it.
How the court decides: the child's best interests
Custody and access applications are decided on the best interests of the child. The Act lists factors the court looks at, including:
- The child's emotional ties.
- The child's views, where they can reasonably be ascertained.
- The time the child has spent in a stable home.
- Each applicant's ability to act as a parent.
- The proposed plans for the child's upbringing.
- The permanence and stability of the proposed home.
The court must also consider any violence by a person toward a spouse, child or household member. If safety is a concern in your situation, raise it early with a lawyer.
Parents start from a different place than other applicants. The father and mother of a child are equally entitled to custody, subject to the other provisions of Part III of the Act. A grandparent or other relative is listed separately as a person who may apply, and the court decides that application on the child's best interests.
What access includes
Access is more than visits. Under the Act, it includes the right to visit the child and the right to receive information about the child's health, education and welfare.
Custody is different. A person with custody has parental rights and responsibilities and must use them in the child's best interests. Many grandparents ask only for access, which is often a more modest request than custody.
Which court hears the application
Under the Children's Law Act, 'court' means the Trial Division or the Provincial Court. In a judicial area designated under the Judicature Act, it means the Trial Division, Family Division. Where you live matters:
| Area | Court |
|---|---|
| East Coast judicial area (part of the Avalon Peninsula, up to and including Holyrood and Bell Island) | Family Division has exclusive jurisdiction |
| West Coast judicial area (west coast of the island, including the Northern Peninsula) | Family Division has exclusive jurisdiction |
| Expanded service area (Holyrood to Port Blandford, including the Bonavista Peninsula) | Family Division or Provincial Court, at your choice for parenting orders under the Children's Law Act |
In areas where the Family Division does not operate, the General Division of the Supreme Court also exercises jurisdiction over some family matters.
Changes to the areas the Family Division covers have been proposed but are not yet in force. Which court serves your area depends on where you live, so it is worth confirming with the court or a lawyer before you file.
A warning about the parents' divorce
If the child's married parents start a divorce proceeding under the Divorce Act, a custody or access application under the Children's Law Act is stayed unless the court grants leave. Parenting issues between the married spouses are then decided under the Divorce Act.
If you already have an application underway, or plan to file one while the parents are divorcing, ask a lawyer how to protect your position and whether you need to ask for leave.
Options outside court and next steps
Family Justice Services (FJS) is a division of the Supreme Court that helps families resolve parenting and child support issues outside the courtroom. It offers mediation and parent education sessions, is free, and does not provide legal advice. Both parties can sign and submit a Request for Service to the nearest FJS office.
The FJS Parent Information Program is a group session called 'Living Apart…Parenting Together'. Attendance is mandatory for parents involved in family court applications. Parents not going to court are encouraged to attend. The format has been described both as an in-person group session and as an online course, so confirm the current format and registration with your regional FJS office.
If you have started a custody or access application, a court can also appoint a mediator the parties choose, at the parties' request. The parties pay the mediator's fees, and the court allocates the shares.
- Write down your relationship to the child and how long you have cared for or seen them.
- Gather records of past contact, caregiving, school or medical involvement.
- Note any safety concerns, including violence.
- Find out which court serves your area.
- Contact your regional FJS office about mediation.
- Speak with a family lawyer before filing.
Frequently asked questions
Do grandparents have an automatic right to see a grandchild?
Not automatically. A grandparent is, however, among the people who can apply to court for custody or access. The court then decides based on the child's best interests.
Can a step-parent apply for custody or access?
A person with a settled intention to treat the child as a member of their family can apply, as can a person with actual care of the child. Whether a step-parent fits depends on the facts, so a lawyer can help assess your situation.
Does the court listen to what the child wants?
The child's views are one factor the court considers, where they can reasonably be ascertained. They are weighed alongside other factors such as emotional ties and stability.
Is mediation required before I apply?
Whether mediation is needed before you apply depends on your situation, so it is worth confirming with a lawyer. FJS mediation is free and available to residents involved in family law matters. Parents involved in family court applications must attend the Parent Information Program.
Sources
- Children's Law Act, RSNL 1990 c C-13 — assembly.nl.ca
- Supreme Court of Newfoundland and Labrador – Family Division Jurisdiction — court.nl.ca
- Supreme Court of Newfoundland and Labrador – General Division Jurisdiction — court.nl.ca
- Supreme Court of Newfoundland and Labrador – Family Justice Services — court.nl.ca
- Government of Newfoundland and Labrador – Family Justice Services Division: Parent Information Program — gov.nl.ca
Links go to official government, court and regulator pages. The law changes — confirm you are reading the current version.
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